livingwithit Posted June 22, 2006 Share Posted June 22, 2006 I'll be leaving soon to have dinner with him. He says this will be life changing dinner tonight. I agree, I'm sure we don't have the same ideas in mind. I want this to be the last time we see each other and the last time we speak. He says he's excited, I don't think he will be excited about what I have to say. Link to post Share on other sites
whichwayisup Posted June 22, 2006 Share Posted June 22, 2006 If he has papers signed, then you can be excited. If he tells you he's leaving his wife, that's something said in just words. Expect the worst, hope for the best. Stay strong and just know that if it's not good news, you WILL get through this. You don't want to stay the OW forever, right? Link to post Share on other sites
whichwayisup Posted June 22, 2006 Share Posted June 22, 2006 I'll add this in too. (I went and read your other posts) IS he the type of man, even though you love him, that you want to spend the rest of your life with? He's lied to you, led you on... What he's done and still doing to his current wife is awful. He did that to her, it's possible he could do that to you in the future. Remember that. Watch for his expressions and actions, not just "what" he says. It's too easy for him to promise you things that he knows he cannot follow through on. Link to post Share on other sites
dontbfooled Posted June 23, 2006 Share Posted June 23, 2006 So... what ended up happening at dinner? Hope all is ok with you... Link to post Share on other sites
babydoll_mimi Posted June 24, 2006 Share Posted June 24, 2006 what happened at dinner? I'm at the edge of my seat Link to post Share on other sites
movinon05 Posted June 24, 2006 Share Posted June 24, 2006 This is what happened at dinner: http://www.loveshack.org/forums/t91802/ Link to post Share on other sites
babydoll_mimi Posted June 24, 2006 Share Posted June 24, 2006 Thanks MO!!! I had actually read that post, but wasn't clear on if it was sent from the same person. thanks! Link to post Share on other sites
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