Guest Posted June 26, 2006 Share Posted June 26, 2006 Dear LoveShack Message board readers, I am a 15 year old male and I beleive I have developed a problem. I am constantly thinking about sex. I see girls at school who i'm good friends with in a sexual way. I know that at this point in my life sexual thoughts are normal but mine are very constant and intrusive on my life. For example I will suddenly find it extremelly hard to concentrate at school due to thoughts of a sexual nature and feel the need to relieve myself, knowing this is not possible I become very tense and frustrated. Which often results in actions I later regret. Even when I am in situations where I can relive myself I just want more after 5 minutes. I have even gone as far as developing sores from over rubbing. I don't like the way my sex drive is impacting my life and I want to change that. Could anyone help me out? I have not discussed this with anyone for I am embarrased by my problem and think it's unnatural to have such a high sex drive. I tihnk to myself 'I am becomming rapist or sometihng of a similiar nature?' and that scares me. I don't want to turn out to be that kind of person! Thank you for your time. Link to post Share on other sites
The slayer Posted June 26, 2006 Share Posted June 26, 2006 Dear Guest, The only part of your post that seems less than entirely normal for someone of your age, is your level of insight. You are aware of the fact that you are seeing all the girls of your age as sexual objects, uncomfortable with he fact your sex drive is taking over our life and don't want to end up a rapist. Don't worry I am sure you won't end up "That kind of person" ou are just proabably really physicallyly ready to start having sex. You don't mention wheher or not you have a girlfriend yet, but from what you say I'm guessing you don't. Be aware that one problem you may have to cope with soon is that if you start dating a girl, you are going to want sex bad, pretty much sraight away and she very probably isn't. As for relieving yourself as you put it, maybe you should try not rubbing so hard, rubbing very gently will make it las much longer and it may then seem more satisfying. Best of luck, it all gets easier I promise! Link to post Share on other sites
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