Girly Posted September 29, 1999 Share Posted September 29, 1999 Me and my boyfriend have been together for a month in two weeks. and I am not sure if he is still into me because when I want to spend time with him lately he is either too busy or to tired. I want to know if he is making excuses because he doesnt want to be with me and is afraid of telling me because he doesnt want to hurt me. He has been doing this for a week now. What can I do to find out why he is doing this. Or am I just over reacting and should give it a little more time to figure out whats going on. Because it is bugging me and making me stress. So please help me !!!! Link to post Share on other sites
Ryan Posted September 30, 1999 Share Posted September 30, 1999 A month in two weeks? Wouldn't that be....just two weeks? What is the point of trying to make it seem longer? That is an important part to realize....this relationship is very, very fresh. You are putting all this thought into a thinly developed connection. Calm down a little, you aren't struggling with a 20 year marriage. You don't have much to go on here. I can't hardly call this a trend. You are going to scare the young lad if you impose all these feelings on him so quickly. If the relationship doesn't hold together....move on. But don't keep your head in the clouds so much that you can't see where your feet are treading. Link to post Share on other sites
Temptress Posted September 30, 1999 Share Posted September 30, 1999 Just how much have you seen of this guy in 2 weeks?? Is he aware that he is your boyfriend??? I think you need to give the guy some breathing space.......you sound almost obsessive. Perhaps he is busy or tired. The only way to find out for sure is to ask him. Ask him if he wants to have a relationship with you, or if he has changed his mind and is making excuses so as not to hurt your feelings. Link to post Share on other sites
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