joel Posted June 27, 2006 Share Posted June 27, 2006 spacer.gif any of you guys ever encouter a so called stuck up/snobby girl. hmm let me describe the situation. this is in a college setting ,lets say you see a gal classmate who happens to be in 4 out of your 5 class. since you see her a lot(meaning everyday) you decide to enage small talk with her. me: oh you already bought the text book already hey. how much was it? her: 80 bucks me: i started reading the short story text in our english lit class. its really long and boring and i don't think i understand the context her:yea me either me: is this your last class of the day her:yea me: i don't really undestand Mr. F he has a really thick accent, he also doesn't seem to now how to teach he just reads off his notes her: yea i now me: see ya tommorow and bye her:bye have you guys ever encoutner girls who were like this. they don't seem to want to talk to you, even tough its just casual small talk and nothing sexual. hmmmm just making friends and nothin really more. i also observed this gurl would be non talktive towards me, but i notice her being more talktive with another CBC guy-who happens to be on chubby and very average looking. hmmmmmmm. i never encoutnered a stuck up guy ,but with girls yes. to be even more specific they tend to be CBC chinese girls. i wonders with it. maybe i don't dress trendy and cool enough, marks wise i'm only a 70's% student. maybe that not good enough for the ambitious CBC girls. have not encountered it with a white girls yet they tend to be more talktive and friendly-even if they aren't interested or have a bf. any guys encounter snobby, stuck up and non talktive girls. what do you think is the main reason? you see em talk to other people and being quite friendly with them ,but with you its like ah nothin. its not every girl. its just some CBC chinese girls have been like that towards me. i really wonder why.they weren't rich , or very good looking either just plain average. Link to post Share on other sites
Brittanyjean06 Posted June 28, 2006 Share Posted June 28, 2006 I'm sure we all have encountered a stuck up person. If she is stuck than it sucks to be her, because I've always felt stuck up people aren't living the right way. I've had people look at me and call me stuck up for no apparent reason, hahah it makes me giggle because if they only new how I really was. So in a way I'm gonna back both sides up. You don't truely know if she is stuck up, all you know is that this girl didn't care to talk to you, or was having a bad day perhaps? She could possibly be shy, Now you have a class with her so you have alot of time to get to know her, and than you can say if she is stuck up or not, or acts real snooby towards stupid stuff But go talk to someone else who will be willing to chat up a conversation with you! Link to post Share on other sites
Spank'n'Rationality Posted June 28, 2006 Share Posted June 28, 2006 Okay, so I have to reply to this, because I often get mistaken as the "stuck-up" girl. The truth is, a lot of "stuck-up" people are just shy. I understand that you might not understand why this girl can chat it up with the unattractive guys, but not you. However, you have to realize, that she may feel threatened by you; here you are (I am assuming) attractive, confidently talking with her, and she suddenly feels threatened, wondering why you would want to talk to her in the first place. I think you are being too hard on her reactions. Just try to get to know her better, and maybe you will find out that she is actually a really nice, friendly person with a lot to offer, and not just an "average-stuck-up-girl." Link to post Share on other sites
HeyYouGuys Posted June 28, 2006 Share Posted June 28, 2006 I got called 'stuck up' too. I wasn't. I was just PAINFULLY shy in high school and parts of college. I didn't really blossom until my early twenties. I was fortunate to have friends who could see past my quiet demeanor to the fun, humorous person underneath. I just needed time to 'warm up' and then I was fine! So don't take it personally. Be kind towards the quiet people. Some may turn out to be great friends down the road Link to post Share on other sites
sugarplum Posted June 28, 2006 Share Posted June 28, 2006 Okay' date=' so I have to reply to this, because I often get mistaken as the "stuck-up" girl. The truth is, a lot of "stuck-up" people are just shy. I understand that you might not understand why this girl can chat it up with the unattractive guys, but not you. However, you have to realize, that she may feel threatened by you; here you are (I am assuming) attractive, confidently talking with her, and she suddenly feels threatened, wondering why you would want to talk to her in the first place. [/quote'] Omg! Do you know me? You just described me! Honestly, my familly-in-law are all outgoing. I am a bit of an introvert. They often think I am stuck up, when really, I just dont know what to say most of the time! Link to post Share on other sites
Tim'sAngel Posted June 28, 2006 Share Posted June 28, 2006 Maybe she just had a rough day and didn't feel like talking. I have those days. Sometimes someone will try to engage me in a conversation on the day my car broke down, had to spend hundruds of dollars to get it fixed, the electricity was turned off because I forgot to pay my bill, my cat is sick, my grandmother is dying and I have to go home to a hot, dirty house I need to clean. Do I feel like talking? No. So instead of being rude and ignoring the person, I just answer the questions and go on about my business, because I really feel like just blowing someones head off!! I've learned to never judge a book by it's cover. 9 times out of 10, there is an underlying reason for one's actions. i never encoutnered a stuck up guy ,but with girls yes I have What is CBC? Link to post Share on other sites
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