Guest Posted June 27, 2006 Share Posted June 27, 2006 This is the most embarrassing thing I've ever done. Thank you to the people who run this site. I don't know what I would have done if I had not found you. I had a girlfriend for 8 years. When we first started having sex, she would get yeast infections, sometimes even bladder infections. I understand what they are and how they happen. But recently I started having sex with a new partner and sure enough a yeast infection occurred. I am not a dirtball. I have been told that I shower too often and for too long. But obviously there is something doing with me. Until I can get to the doctor, is there foods, drinks, or anything I can avoid/include in my life? Is being uncircumsized (f*** you mom and dad) a major factor in this ongoing dilema? How can I tell my new girl that I am not some guy who has slept around and am dirty? How can I stop this feeling of AAAAAAGGGGHHHHH!!!!!!!!! Thank you again in advance if anyone can help Link to post Share on other sites
sugarplum Posted June 28, 2006 Share Posted June 28, 2006 I am no expert on the subject, but I do know that some women are more prone to get them than others, and they are certainly not uncommon - or there wouldn't be OTC for it. Before you blame yourself, consider it may simply be coincidence, and that the new partner just happened to get one and it has nothing to do with you. Does this new partner blame you? But checking it out with a doctor is the responsible thing to do - good for you. Link to post Share on other sites
Outcast Posted June 28, 2006 Share Posted June 28, 2006 Yeast infections aren't about being 'dirty'. They're about changing the levels of normal bacteria in the vagina. If anything, maybe you're too clean and you're wiping out her regular protective bacteria. Are you using sperimicide? Scented or flavoured condoms? Any other type of chemical? Is she maybe douching now? I had a fair bit of trouble until my gyno told me to stop using regular detergent on my skivvies. Things with scents, etc. can cause some women hassles that way. Link to post Share on other sites
Buttaflyy Posted June 28, 2006 Share Posted June 28, 2006 Is being uncircumsized (f*** you mom and dad) a major factor in this ongoing dilema? :lmao: :lmao: :lmao: Funniest s*** I ever heard ^^ BTW it's probably not at all your fault. Or your parents Link to post Share on other sites
Milf629 Posted June 28, 2006 Share Posted June 28, 2006 1.) I dont think they are contagious. Anyone know for sure? 2.) at the very same time I have heard of men being more prone to them when they ARE NOT circumsized. Because it creates an enviroment condusive for Bacteria to grow (warm/moisture) 3.) yeast is present in ALL of our bodies its when that level gets out of whack that yeast infections occur. Link to post Share on other sites
sugarplum Posted June 28, 2006 Share Posted June 28, 2006 My doctor told me that they can be spread, but it is VERY uncommon. I had a recurring problem a while back and asked about treating my husband. she said unless he had obvious symptoms (and they would be obvious) that there was probably no need. I have also heard that yeast infections can be influenced by your pH levels. There is something new on the market, OTC, that addresses this but I cant remember what its called. Link to post Share on other sites
The slayer Posted June 28, 2006 Share Posted June 28, 2006 Yeast infecions to the male urinary tract can be asymptomatic which means that you could have it without knowing you have it. If a female with a regular partner is having recurrent yeast infections it is usual for the partner to be treated as well. Its not your fault so don't feel embarrassed, but might be an idea for you to both seek some advi.ce Link to post Share on other sites
sugarplum Posted June 28, 2006 Share Posted June 28, 2006 Yeast infecions to the male urinary tract can be asymptomatic which means that you could have it without knowing you have it. If a female with a regular partner is having recurrent yeast infections it is usual for the partner to be treated as well. Its not your fault so don't feel embarrassed, but might be an idea for you to both seek some advi.ce Hmmmm...this is the exact opposite of what my doc said. Guess it all depends on who your doctor is - which is a scary thought! Link to post Share on other sites
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