Lollie72 Posted June 27, 2006 Posted June 27, 2006 Hi, I thought maybe I'd start a thread here too. I guess my story belongs in about 1/2 dozen threads easily. I'm about to file for a divorce and the horse was dead long ago, but we were forcing the marriage to continue. It was only a 4-year, nightmare. ANd I met a great guy and feel like he's really compatible material with exceellent chemistry. I think even if we're not admitting to it, we're seriously falling in love, but pretending we're just friends. I'm not sure how fast to move. I dont' want to ruin a good thing by jumping into bed too quickly but the lust is there too. Very there. I want to move slowely so this isn't just by definition and exit affiar/or a transition relationship. Maybe it's more about how each one of us feels and works the situation out instead of my being afraid of what society will think.I know that I don't want to date around. I hadn't planned on dating around for a long-while, but this guy just seems like a gift from God. It's crazy but I really just want to proclaim my love for him. Maybe it's meant to be, but the timing is strange, and unexpected. I guess it could have been worse, the first few times I saw him socially, I could't look him straight in the face because the chemistry was so strong. Then we didn't see one another or rather run into one another for over 6 months. So the timing is a lot better. Ruuuuurrrr. I just want to be so honest and also not risk scaring him away because my feelings are so strong so fast....
Guest Posted July 3, 2006 Posted July 3, 2006 Well I'm going thru a divorce myself.I left my ex on 5-27. Less than 2 weeks after I moved out he had his lawyer send me papers in the mail. We signed legal seperation papers this past Wednesday. I had been with him for 19 years. If he can see a lawyer that fast, I can now see who I want when I want. I'm free free free. If you find someone that interest you, go for it. Life is too short to be miserable. Best of luck to ya!
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