luvtoto Posted June 27, 2006 Share Posted June 27, 2006 This is a continuation from "Am I a Prude" thread.... I got an email from him today that stated, "Can we talk?". Ok, he dumped me, I walked away, why would he still be wanting to talk to me? Why do guys do this? Does he just see me as a challenge now? Link to post Share on other sites
jerbear Posted June 27, 2006 Share Posted June 27, 2006 How long was it again? Less than 1 month? I would not say play hard to get since he pushed then dumped you because he didn't get what he wanted. (control??) Sounds like a toddler with a temper tantrum to me. Since you have kids, you know what to do with toddler temper tantrums!! Give yourself a few days to think and rethink if he is worth it. Only in your heart would you decide. Now after your heart decides, if you still have a head that thinks, make sure those two concur. If your head, heart and landing strip agrees then talk to him. Link to post Share on other sites
Author luvtoto Posted June 28, 2006 Author Share Posted June 28, 2006 How long was it again? Less than 1 month? More like, how short was it again. Thanks, Jerbear. I am going to email him and tell him that I would like to talk to him...but, my phone is broke. Link to post Share on other sites
Pyro Posted June 28, 2006 Share Posted June 28, 2006 This is a continuation from "Am I a Prude" thread.... I got an email from him today that stated, "Can we talk?". Ok, he dumped me, I walked away, why would he still be wanting to talk to me? Why do guys do this? Does he just see me as a challenge now? I said it before and I will say it again. You are the best thing that has ever happened to him. he found himself a mature woman who does not play any games and he screwed it up. He didn't act like it at the time, but he did get hurt when you hung up on him and you told him that you were done. He he is now trying to win you back. The decision is yours on what you want to do but I think that his past track record with you speaks for itself. Link to post Share on other sites
Author luvtoto Posted June 28, 2006 Author Share Posted June 28, 2006 I said it before and I will say it again. You are the best thing that has ever happened to him. he found himself a mature woman who does not play any games and he screwed it up. He didn't act like it at the time, but he did get hurt when you hung up on him and you told him that you were done. He he is now trying to win you back. The decision is yours on what you want to do but I think that his past track record with you speaks for itself. Thanks Riddler. I am really surprised that he is still wanting me. I mean, if he was a player, then he would have moved on, I s'pose. I did email him. I wrote him, "Sorry, my phone is broke." I'm a little stinker. Link to post Share on other sites
Pyro Posted June 28, 2006 Share Posted June 28, 2006 Thanks Riddler. I am really surprised that he is still wanting me. I mean, if he was a player, then he would have moved on, I s'pose. I did email him. I wrote him, "Sorry, my phone is broke." I'm a little stinker. Yes you are. Now he knows how bad it feels to have that kind of excuse told to him. Maybe in his future relationships, he won't pull that crap anymore. From what you have wrote about him in the past, he doesn't sound like a player, just a confused boy. I know some guys that take alot of pride in being able to date an older mature woman, so I honestly believe that he really does miss you. Link to post Share on other sites
Author luvtoto Posted June 28, 2006 Author Share Posted June 28, 2006 Yes you are. Now he knows how bad it feels to have that kind of excuse told to him. Maybe in his future relationships, he won't pull that crap anymore. From what you have wrote about him in the past, he doesn't sound like a player, just a confused boy. I know some guys that take alot of pride in being able to date an older mature woman, so I honestly believe that he really does miss you. Exactly! A boy. I feel like I'm with a boy. He's got alot of growing up to do. I want someone who knows what he wants. If anything, I would want to talk to him out of sheer curiosity. Well, I am heading to bed. It's past 10:00 where I am from. Later, Riddler. You are a helluva guy. Link to post Share on other sites
jerbear Posted June 28, 2006 Share Posted June 28, 2006 Thanks Riddler. I am really surprised that he is still wanting me. I mean, if he was a player, then he would have moved on, I s'pose. I did email him. I wrote him, "Sorry, my phone is broke." I'm a little stinker. Yes you are a hard to get stinker! Some players do play these games of disappearing the reappearing. It is possible that he misses you but who knows what is in his head. He has to try but it is you who has to decide. He misses you but it may not be the same as before. Did he even offer an apology? Link to post Share on other sites
Pyro Posted June 28, 2006 Share Posted June 28, 2006 Exactly! A boy. I feel like I'm with a boy. He's got alot of growing up to do. I want someone who knows what he wants. If anything, I would want to talk to him out of sheer curiosity. Well, I am heading to bed. It's past 10:00 where I am from. Later, Riddler. You are a helluva guy. If you talk to him, the first thing you need to tell him is that you have no desire to get back with him. His reaction from that statement should let you know what his intentions are. Just past 11 here. Thanks Luv. I just know what I want out of life. Link to post Share on other sites
sagiterre Posted June 28, 2006 Share Posted June 28, 2006 My bf dumped me, and yesterday I got a fren request from yahoo msger. He wants to add me to his contact list..I wonder why he wanna chat wid me. he ditched me, and after 1 year..but i rejected the fren request, braved the situation, coz i moved on wid life. Link to post Share on other sites
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