engravefeelthevoid Posted June 29, 2006 Share Posted June 29, 2006 Hey guys ! I'm a single guy now...after many relationships and break-ups I've decided to leave those till Uni...recently though I met this girl online that I really liked..shes cute..fun..and everything I ever wanted..I have this huge crush on her..! the only problem, is that she hates relationships with guys and she's kinda really hard to get...so I've tried to be her close friend..get into her hidden soul..and honestly that's enough for me.. I am loyal...when I talk to her it's like pushing a car!..I can't tell her I wanna go further in our relationship..cuz I don't wanna be stupid in an attemp to be brave..scaring her off...this is not a girl i can try new things on..everything has to be perfect...I think she has a 15 % crush on me I have 90%...I'm just reluctant to proceed............ What's the best way to ask for her number and start hearing her voice? is there a chance to be real friends or even lovers from just normal chat? What would a girl feel if she was in her position? Link to post Share on other sites
j.carsey Posted June 29, 2006 Share Posted June 29, 2006 One thing you should be careful about is just becoming a guy friend who hangs out with her, hoping she is going to pick up on it. See the thread in Romantic - Dating called "8 signs you are in the Friendzone" Since you really like her, make sure you make it known that you want to be with her. If she's already refused, maybe stick around a few more months and see if she warms up to you. Also even if she doesn't want a "serious relationship", this doesn't mean she might not want to still get close to you somehow. The important thing is seeing if she shows YOU any interest, or is it all one-sided. Does she enjoy talking to you, spending time with you. Does she sound enthusiastic about spending more time together, etc. Link to post Share on other sites
Author engravefeelthevoid Posted July 26, 2006 Author Share Posted July 26, 2006 i kind of proceeded with this relation now..we are closer chat friends...and often she starts convos..but i helped her out with her cv and she got the job in Zara , a clothes shop, so I'm gonna tell her that i wanna pass by and say hi, note that now I kind of am in the friendszone, but not best friends zone.....so I'm gonna pass by there..and see her...all I want is to have her as a friend I can see and go out with wether friend..gf..sister...i dont care....anything I need to know..be careful of ? Link to post Share on other sites
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