babymama Posted June 29, 2006 Share Posted June 29, 2006 Me and my husband been togther now for 4yrs and married for about 2yrs. Are sex life eas grest before are first kid. But once he was born are sex life changed, but then it went back to being great cuz we were living together. They we got married but after 2 months into are marry i had found out that i was pregnant again but are sex life din't change up until in became a marine and we moved to NC. This is when are sex life stared to suck. All he would do is come home watch porn on TV jerk-off and then try to have sex with me sometimes. So had spoke to him and we agreed to block all the porn channels, so I did. But it didn't change so much we had we start having sex maybe once a week. Now that he has a computer all he does now is watch porn on the internet. He spends move time on line with porn the with me and his son. He doesn't help me with anything. Now all he cares about is porn online. He doesn't even try like use to and in a way i'm glad he doesn't because i don't feel comfortable with him anymore. I feel like i don't know him anymore. I try to stay away from him just so that he doesn't treat me like a sex toy. Link to post Share on other sites
JackJack Posted June 29, 2006 Share Posted June 29, 2006 Ask your husband if he wants to save his marriage before it falls to the way side. If he says yes and means it, then suggest marraige counseling. Its not uncommon for men especailly, to feel unwanted or pushed aside when babies come into the situation. No I'm not saying you intenionally pushed him away when the kids were born, but maybe to him he felt he came second because alot of your attention was focused on the kids. Try to help him feel more loved, have you told him you appreicate him? Does he help you with the kids or anything? Sit down and have a serious talk with him let him know how this makes you feel. Go about it in a non threating way though. Or that will push him further away. If he agrees to go to marraige counseling the computer needs to be unplugged. No its not going to fix whats going on, but why continue to have something accessable that is bothering you, to distract him. Link to post Share on other sites
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