hotgurl Posted June 29, 2006 Share Posted June 29, 2006 So yea how bad is making out to you. on a scale of 1-10 what do you consider making out? Just curious. just heavy kissing and a little boob action. Link to post Share on other sites
a4a Posted June 29, 2006 Share Posted June 29, 2006 Well if you get to that point you may as well just go ahead and screw. Damage done in my book. Intent of the mission is there even if the mission was aborted or thwarted. 10 Link to post Share on other sites
MarnieGirl Posted June 29, 2006 Share Posted June 29, 2006 well i guess it's not as bad as some other things, but just because it's not as bad doesn't mean i wouldn't be just as mad about it. goodness, hotgurl, what are you up to? is there a blushing smiley on this thing? what a4a says at the end is right. what difference does it make what body parts went where? it's the fact that anything happened at all. Link to post Share on other sites
magichands Posted June 29, 2006 Share Posted June 29, 2006 My feeling is that cheating is cheating. If we're using the "scale," it would be for the "health" ramifications. Like STDs, etc. Ramifications... that word sounds almost rude. I suppose it could make a small difference if she slapped him after he touched her breast? Link to post Share on other sites
magichands Posted June 29, 2006 Share Posted June 29, 2006 Well if you get to that point you may as well just go ahead and screw. Damage done in my book. Intent of the mission is there even if the mission was aborted or thwarted. 10 10-4!!!! Link to post Share on other sites
sugarplum Posted June 29, 2006 Share Posted June 29, 2006 For me and any man in my life, if you look - your human, if you touch - your gone! Link to post Share on other sites
Author hotgurl Posted June 29, 2006 Author Share Posted June 29, 2006 well i guess it's not as bad as some other things, but just because it's not as bad doesn't mean i wouldn't be just as mad about it. goodness, hotgurl, what are you up to? is there a blushing smiley on this thing? what a4a says at the end is right. what difference does it make what body parts went where? it's the fact that anything happened at all. I'm not doing anything I am just curious. What about flirting? Link to post Share on other sites
laRubiaBonita Posted June 29, 2006 Share Posted June 29, 2006 Cheating is cheating is cheating. i know i could never forgive making out..... cause well i could not forgive my ex. but he also had it planned out.... when he and the bitch would be together, alone, etc.... so his intentions were there too..... it did not JUST HAPPEN Link to post Share on other sites
MarnieGirl Posted June 29, 2006 Share Posted June 29, 2006 I'm not doing anything I am just curious. What about flirting? haha, i was just jokin' anyway. flirting, i don't know. i'm engaged and my fiance has a lot of friends, so i get to see how he acts with them. his treatement of females isn't any different from how he treats his male friends. he's not flirty, but he is friendly...and i am glad he is because i wouldn't want to be that girl whose SO has to pretend other females don't exist at the risk of get bitch-slapped. i do think bold-faced, "let's do each other" kind of flirting, with or without the company of an SO present, is not right. not the worst thing, but still not right. Link to post Share on other sites
Author hotgurl Posted June 29, 2006 Author Share Posted June 29, 2006 She that is my problem I am really flirty to the point where I don't always reconize it. I have tried to tone it done. But again I don't notice when I do it and so it becomes a problem. I think I'm being nice he thinks I'm flirting. Link to post Share on other sites
Tim'sAngel Posted June 29, 2006 Share Posted June 29, 2006 So yea how bad is making out to you. on a scale of 1-10 what do you consider making out? Just curious. just heavy kissing and a little boob action. I don't think it is so much what the act was, if you act on an interest with someone else, then you've damaged the trust. It is a form of cheating, so, it is cheating. At least thats IMO. Link to post Share on other sites
MarnieGirl Posted June 29, 2006 Share Posted June 29, 2006 She that is my problem I am really flirty to the point where I don't always reconize it. I have tried to tone it done. But again I don't notice when I do it and so it becomes a problem. I think I'm being nice he thinks I'm flirting. you're definitely not the first with this problem, trust me. when a girl is friendly and likes to joke around with the opposite sex (or the sex she prefers), it can be seen as flirty. when a guy does it, it's called "being a guy." it must be hard to tone it down; it's part of your personality and that's hard to change, if possible at all. but do you really think you need to change? or do you have a jealous person saying they don't like how you act? i mean, it might suck to be the one who has to watch their outgoing, fun, flirty SO interacting with other people, but you sometimes have to wonder which SO really has the issue. but if the issue is that people are misreading your intentions, then maybe you can learn to "tone it down" with just those people. or rid yourself of people who think that being nice and having fun mean that you want their penises. Link to post Share on other sites
Author hotgurl Posted June 29, 2006 Author Share Posted June 29, 2006 you're definitely not the first with this problem, trust me. when a girl is friendly and likes to joke around with the opposite sex (or the sex she prefers), it can be seen as flirty. when a guy does it, it's called "being a guy." it must be hard to tone it down; it's part of your personality and that's hard to change, if possible at all. but do you really think you need to change? or do you have a jealous person saying they don't like how you act? i mean, it might suck to be the one who has to watch their outgoing, fun, flirty SO interacting with other people, but you sometimes have to wonder which SO really has the issue. but if the issue is that people are misreading your intentions, then maybe you can learn to "tone it down" with just those people. or rid yourself of people who think that being nice and having fun mean that you want their penises. Well it's not much of a problem anymore because he is more secure in our relationship. But I do get asked out a lot and I think it is because i am nice and funny and will chat with someone in line for coffee or whatnot but It's not like sexual or anything. I do flirt with this one guy at work pretty bad hank god my BF ddoesn't work with me anymore. LOL Link to post Share on other sites
MarnieGirl Posted June 29, 2006 Share Posted June 29, 2006 Well it's not much of a problem anymore because he is more secure in our relationship. But I do get asked out a lot and I think it is because i am nice and funny and will chat with someone in line for coffee or whatnot but It's not like sexual or anything. I do flirt with this one guy at work pretty bad hank god my BF ddoesn't work with me anymore. LOL well then that's a good thing, the first part. and i know all about talking with people in lines, even at my most unapproachable i end up in conversations with someone about something! careful with this hank dude though. Link to post Share on other sites
Author hotgurl Posted June 30, 2006 Author Share Posted June 30, 2006 well then that's a good thing, the first part. and i know all about talking with people in lines, even at my most unapproachable i end up in conversations with someone about something! careful with this hank dude though. no I am to old (27) for this guy at work. He is 42 and only dates the teenagers 18 & 19 in his department. Now that's a whole different thread. Link to post Share on other sites
Guest Posted July 5, 2006 Share Posted July 5, 2006 your nickname is "hotgurl" and you post a sexy avatar. I say you DO know when your flirting, you love it and the attention you get from it. Heck you can't quit being permiscuous even online. IMO You say "I don't realize..." or "I try to tone it down" just to act innocent on it. I say get it out of your system before you try to commit. Overly flirtatious individuals usually can't control themselves when oppertunities arise (as I also suspect you've already done and are feeling guilty about which is why you are here and asked a very specific question "boob action?") Eventually when you get all the attention you've wanted by flirting you might tune it down and start placing importance in different forms of affection. Thats my 2c ^_^ Link to post Share on other sites
Guest Posted July 5, 2006 Share Posted July 5, 2006 your nickname is "hotgurl" and you post a sexy avatar. I say you DO know when your flirting, you love it and the attention you get from it. Heck you can't quit being permiscuous even online. IMO You say "I don't realize..." or "I try to tone it down" just to act innocent on it. I say get it out of your system before you try to commit. Overly flirtatious individuals usually can't control themselves when oppertunities arise (as I also suspect you've already done and are feeling guilty about which is why you are here and asked a very specific question "boob action?") Eventually when you get all the attention you've wanted by flirting you might tune it down and start placing importance in different forms of affection. Thats my 2c ^_^ Link to post Share on other sites
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