thekhris Posted July 3, 2006 Share Posted July 3, 2006 Aren't you the one who's trying to get your ex gf back ?yah..it was a month ago...i win her back...with the help of donpepot... Link to post Share on other sites
thekhris Posted July 3, 2006 Share Posted July 3, 2006 Ahh yes, I am glad they were deleted. It was an intolerable mysogynistic attack. did you read that post?what is it all about?..i think hes just being compassionate to lot of guys...i dont think hes a sexist or somthing..actually hes helping some females here on this site actually.. what did he post? Link to post Share on other sites
d0npep0t Posted July 3, 2006 Share Posted July 3, 2006 Ahh yes, I am glad they were deleted. It was an intolerable mysogynistic attack. whatever................... Link to post Share on other sites
dr strangelove Posted July 3, 2006 Share Posted July 3, 2006 Hmm revenge? My ex used to do this thing where she would tell me how she met some great new guy. Then I just said thats awesome. Then that guy mysteriously vanished. She said that when were had some problems when we went out. Then she pulled that a few times when she has talked to me in the recent past. I always thought she was trying to make me jealous, I never considered revenge. In any case it had no effect on me, probably because why would she contact me if this guy was so super.. why talk to me not him. Something like that would only work if the ex stumbled upon your so called great new life by accident. It would also have to be a time where their life wasnt going so great. Link to post Share on other sites
thekhris Posted July 4, 2006 Share Posted July 4, 2006 Hmm revenge? My ex used to do this thing where she would tell me how she met some great new guy. Then I just said thats awesome. Then that guy mysteriously vanished. She said that when were had some problems when we went out. Then she pulled that a few times when she has talked to me in the recent past. I always thought she was trying to make me jealous, I never considered revenge. In any case it had no effect on me, probably because why would she contact me if this guy was so super.. why talk to me not him. Something like that would only work if the ex stumbled upon your so called great new life by accident. It would also have to be a time where their life wasnt going so great. yah..like what i said and what this tread said... the best revenge is not doing anything revenge..the best revenge is making your life so damn good not bcoz of you want to hurt your ex but bcoz for yourself..you dont care if he\she dump you... you love your life...obviously your ex did not do the tips taht this tread is saying.. Link to post Share on other sites
whir Posted July 10, 2006 Share Posted July 10, 2006 nice thread.. i think the best thing about getting back together is when she is saying im sorry and she is giving the best of her love more that ever when both of you hit again... Link to post Share on other sites
luvtoto Posted July 10, 2006 Share Posted July 10, 2006 There is such a fine line between getting revenge and just being pathetic. I mean, the best revenge on an X is to just move on and never look back. But, I've sunk pretty low before. When my X dumped me for *her*...I started dating *her* husband. They hated it! We were obsessed with them, and they were obsessed with us. Link to post Share on other sites
whir Posted July 10, 2006 Share Posted July 10, 2006 There is such a fine line between getting revenge and just being pathetic. I mean, the best revenge on an X is to just move on and never look back. But, I've sunk pretty low before. When my X dumped me for *her*...I started dating *her* husband. They hated it! We were obsessed with them, and they were obsessed with us. loz..nice post... im glad everyone agreed to what this tread is saying... Link to post Share on other sites
luvtoto Posted July 10, 2006 Share Posted July 10, 2006 loz..nice post... im glad everyone agreed to what this tread is saying... Yea, I understand. It was fun at the time, but if I had to do it over again I would take the high road. That's the road I take now. Link to post Share on other sites
whir Posted July 10, 2006 Share Posted July 10, 2006 so what happend..did he left the girl for you..or what.. Link to post Share on other sites
luvtoto Posted July 10, 2006 Share Posted July 10, 2006 so what happend..did he left the girl for you..or what.. Well, those two jerks (my x and *her*) moved to Colorado and they are broke and running from bill collectors. They can't stay in one place too long. Her husband and I dated for 2 years, then he dumped me. I started dating another man a couple weeks later, he didn't like that. He came over and asked me to marry him. I told him, "nope, sorry". He ended up moving on and re-married another lady. They got married and moved into a huge house. They were very happy, so I heard. She was killed in December, though. Traffic accident. It was devestating. I ran into him just a few weeks back. He looked good, but he was a mess mentally. He was so nice and open. I wanted to tell him to call me, but I resisted the urge. Link to post Share on other sites
alamalmo Posted July 11, 2006 Share Posted July 11, 2006 You are right- once the feeling goes, only that person can bring it back. No amount of begging or strives to impress will change their feelings... Yes, it is Rugby- thanks. And yes, he is a heartbroken man . rightly said...crying before her, n telling her that u'll die without her, only reflects her back...just leave her,forget her...if she comes back, it's good...if she does'nt comes back...even that is not bad!!! Link to post Share on other sites
waitingforlove Posted July 11, 2006 Share Posted July 11, 2006 What if he/she doesn't even want to be friends with you anymore? I don't blame my ex-bf who dumped me. He recently told me that he was interested in somebody else, and that he wanted me to move on and date someone else too. I wrote him an email and congratulated him, but he wrote back telling me that we should "take a break from contacting one another." I feel rather worthless .... like I am not even good enough to be his friend. I'm not sure I would want him back in the future. After all, my friends are helping me see that he's not that great anyway. But the sense of worthlessness is killing me. I don't need "revenge," but I do want him to see that I am a good person, not that wortheless. I wish that at least some day he would see me as a wonderful person again, but we are in long distance. In other words, we probably won't even run into each other again, so I have no chance to show him that I can live well without him. I guess I still care about how he sees me. I agree with everyone here who says that when we really move on, we won't care about how our exes see us, but .... right now it's so hard ... Link to post Share on other sites
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