He wants me to tell my parnets and i am scared

[Wifey]

Hello I am 17 year old girl and well and well my parents well in their culture I am not supposed to date until whenever lol when I don't know I am scared to talk about that with my parnts.You might think this is childish and dumb but this is just how they were raised. Even though my dad is American my Mom who is from Africa and has been here almost her whole life doesn't want me to date. Nor well they don't want boys calling me. I am getting older I know but I am still scared of telling them (I know I i should) but I don't know it's hard brining it up I never talk with my parents about guys. But anyway my friend i have had for almost 1 year now and me just started going out like 3 months ago.

 

well me and him have a wonderful relationship it's just

 

great really its wonderful but there is a problem i am away from home right now and wont see him until December and well okay now i live with my uncle and well he wants to call me all the time (my boyfriend) but cant so we have to talk over the computer he cant call me after 7 and sometimes cant get on the computer and wants to call me but cant and then I get sad

 

We both just get very sad and I know it's bugging him but I just cant have boys calling and that is very. Now he wants me to tell them I am dating him but it's hard cuz I know they wont react right. He was talking to my best friend and said this to her

 

Why do you think my girl has not told her parents about us yet? she said she scared, but they don't hit her the worst is getting yelled at

 

she does not understand

 

He tells me this: Its about U and not trying hard for us, U said u was going to change this seven thing hen let me call u right now Because I told EVERYONE about u your parents are the ones I care about

 

: not your friends So when can I call me girl when I feel like it?????? I get Yelled at all the time for you so tell them please.you would not have to wait if I was able to call u late why I always have to wait, I should be able to call u whenever.

 

It makes me feel bad I want to tell them but I am so scared I don't know when and how and damn this whole thing just has me so messed up. I miss him so much and I want to talk to him as much as we can I don't want to wait until I go back to New York until I can talk to him like we used to. I know you might think this is childish but I really need some advice.

[sparkle]

Whether your parents know or not shouldn't affect your boyfriend at all. It's not like you two are married and he needs to meet them or anything.

 

But about you and your parents, perhaps you can sit down and have a talk with the one you're closer to. Almost 99% of the time, you'll be surprised how much easier it is to discuss something with them than you expected it to be. And I'm sure you two can come to a reasonable compromise about you being allowed to talk on the phone to guys.