slightly complicated

[mr.fluffles]

Ok. There's this girl who said she likes me. (god knows why)

She did a while ago but I wouldn't go out with her. And now her friend told me that she likes me again.

We went to some party on tuesday and everybody was slightly drunk and I ended up making out with her best friend.(not the same one) Now she's severed all contact with me and I think she may have fallen out with her friend.

 

I tried apologising but she just doesn't wanna hear it.

 

It wasn't planned or anything and I'd never have done that to her if I was completely in control. Please don't think that I'm just some idiot. Is there something I need to do and can't see? Should I just let her get on with it and not try and talk to her?

 

I really don't want to come between two best friends.

Pleeeeasee help!

[Outcast]

Now you know what it's a bad idea to get out of control at parties. Consider it a lesson learned. Eventually they'll probably start talking again - they'll become friends again talking about what a jerk you were to them.

[Pink Amulet]

The problem is, you did come between to friends. At the end of the day they are going to sort things out (hopefully) and you are going to be the one they bitch about...

 

I just realised this is the same post as above

 

P.S I would just let it go and stop trying to apologise. Sometimes in life, we leave a trail of fire, it burns people. It's life. At least you have acknowledged to yourself something you have made a mistake.

[sugarplum]

Give her sometime to cool down. After a while, approach her and apologize. If she wont listen, put it in writing, (girls dig that ) remembering that you never put anything on paper that you wouldn't want the world to read, and let that be the end of it. This is something they have to work out between themselves. But look at the bright side - you have now learned a valuable lesson......