CrazyJ Posted July 4, 2006 Share Posted July 4, 2006 Hi, I have been with my boyfriend off and on for the past 7 months, we get along perfectly when we are together, he had been planning this overseas trip when we met! He is now away for 10 weeks, and I am obsessed with what he is doing, where he is etc etc.. We broke up about 2 months ago as he didnt want to have a commitment while he was away as he thought it would be too hard on both of us and travelling was something he needed to do before settling down.. About a month or so before he went away we started seeing each other again and all was good, until it came time for him to go away.. I am finding it very difficult to trust him while he is away, he told me before he left that he probably wont contact me while he is gone, as this is something he needs to do for himself, and doesnt want to make any promises to me before he goes. He knows I love him, and knows I will be waiting for him when he gets home.. But when i send him a text or email, he doesnt reply, he has replied a couple of times and when i ask if he is ignorning me he tells me he isnt ignoring me.. and i say to him that i just care and like to know that he is okay.. and that he doesnt understand.. and he tells me i dont understand.. that he told me he wouldnt message or phone or anything.. The thing is he is on a tour, and I am paranoid that he will cheat on me even though he keeps saying that I should trust him, he is always honest with me.. I can't help the way I feel. I dont know what to do.. I feel like i am obsessing over someone that doesnt even care about me.. but i love him and want to wait for him.. he has always been 100% honest with me and tells me straight. What should i do? how do i stop myself from being so insecure, and from obsessing, checking my phone 400 times a day as well as ringing his phone to see if it is on (it never is).. Does anyone else feel like this??? Link to post Share on other sites
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