Cathy1 Posted July 4, 2006 Share Posted July 4, 2006 Still confused about the effectiveness of NC - not that I doubt the positive impacts completely - it has definitely helped in many ways - its just that I'm still wandering if this "unavailability" produces results in men like longing, wanting you even more, "forbidden fruit"….etc or men just cross you over and tend to like you even less as they are not exposed to your direct influence? In my case, NC was followed by other’s side huge effort to have a contact (but I didn’t give in), though before that he acted like a jerk, which is why I initiated NC in the first place……. Thx, Cathy1 Link to post Share on other sites
jerbear Posted July 4, 2006 Share Posted July 4, 2006 NC is really used to get the other person back but more for yourself. It is used to help you heal. It also creates a fondness between the dumper and dumpee. Depending on who started NC, it has different meanings. Link to post Share on other sites
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