oannamarie Posted July 7, 2006 Share Posted July 7, 2006 I had posted on here several times about my husband. The last post was about a call my husband got which he didnt answer when I was around and stated it was a male friend from highschool whom I have never heard of. i decided to shrug the incident off. The day before yesterday I seen a number on caller ID that I didnt know so I aksed him. He said I have told you before it was "the guy from high school". He said this with an attitude. I didnt say anything except for okay, I forgot. Yesterday when I came home he was yelling at me and telling me that he is tired of my attitude and that he is not talking to me any more. I hadnt said anything to him. I had just walked through the door. After that he said he needed to go to the store which is about two minutes from our house. He left and came back a half hour later. I called him this morning on my way to work as always at his request so he can check up on me and he said "I dont want to talk to you". What should I think. Do you think he is cheating? I am scared to ask because all the blame is usually put on me. Link to post Share on other sites
slinkysu Posted July 7, 2006 Share Posted July 7, 2006 that's terrible. it sounds like he is definitely hiding something. If you want answers then call the number left on caller ID and find out for yourself, but prepare yourself first and ask yourself how you would deal if he i cheating and where you want to go from here. He sounds incredibly controlling though and a marriage is a partnership, not a dictatorship.. Link to post Share on other sites
JadeStar Posted July 7, 2006 Share Posted July 7, 2006 If this is a friend (male) from school then why doesn't he call the number back infront of you? So far this "friend" has called several times but your husband has yet to call them back, I think that would say something right there. Also the fact that he is defensive as well. I agree with what the other poster said, call the number back on the caller ID. Block your number incase that person has caller ID as well, so you might get a better chance of them answering. Or you could always enter the number to a site that has reverse phone number lookups and see what it gives you. Jade Link to post Share on other sites
Author oannamarie Posted July 7, 2006 Author Share Posted July 7, 2006 I entered it into reverse look up and it just gave me the location of the number which is no where near where we live. I am afraid to call. What do I say? Who do I ask for? WHat if the male friend is not at that number where do I go from there? Link to post Share on other sites
JadeStar Posted July 7, 2006 Share Posted July 7, 2006 I entered it into reverse look up and it just gave me the location of the number which is no where near where we live. I am afraid to call. What do I say? Who do I ask for? WHat if the male friend is not at that number where do I go from there? You might could say something along the lines of, "Hi I noticed this number shows up on my caller ID and was wondering who this was?" "Who do I ask for?" Well since you don't know their names I guess you couldn't ask for a name. "What if the male friend is not at that number where do I go from there?" If its really a friend from school they should be at that number. Hopefully if you get the answering machine with a males voice on it then it might put you at ease. I'm curious as to why this "male friend" has yet to leave you all a message on your machine. Link to post Share on other sites
Becoming Posted July 7, 2006 Share Posted July 7, 2006 "I'm sorry. (laughing) I forgot who I'm calling. . . . Who is this?" "Oh, sorry. I must have dialed the wrong number." You need to leave this guy. Get the dirt on him to do it and take him to the cleaners so you can start over. Link to post Share on other sites
a4a Posted July 7, 2006 Share Posted July 7, 2006 Did you google the #? That may give you more info as well. May have something listed for sale online, may be a work #,.......give it a go. Link to post Share on other sites
Author oannamarie Posted July 7, 2006 Author Share Posted July 7, 2006 Thanks. I havent tried googleing the number. My husband did give me the name of his friend. I could try asking for him when I call. I am just a little concerned because we went to highschool togehter and I dont remember him having a friend by that name. Link to post Share on other sites
a4a Posted July 7, 2006 Share Posted July 7, 2006 You can sign up for various sites such as classmates or others that list high school chums...... he may or may not be on there but it is a stab to find out...... there are various sites with classmate names. Do the google on the number. Link to post Share on other sites
a4a Posted July 7, 2006 Share Posted July 7, 2006 google the name as well.... you may get a matching location or general area of the phone you looked up.You can also download a free trial keylogger...... It has a hot key so no sign of it...... just rename the file on your computer as somthing else...........that is dull and would not be looked for or noticed. If you need a name of one..... I can PM it to you. - your friendly LS cheaters detective. Link to post Share on other sites
Author oannamarie Posted July 7, 2006 Author Share Posted July 7, 2006 A4a could you please pm it to me. THanks. Link to post Share on other sites
JackJack Posted July 7, 2006 Share Posted July 7, 2006 I read through the posts, and did you find anything else out? Link to post Share on other sites
Author oannamarie Posted July 7, 2006 Author Share Posted July 7, 2006 I havent found out any additonal information. I tried to down load goldeneye software but my computer didnt accept it. I am going to try to call the number when I get off work. I will advise the out come. Thanks for the advice Link to post Share on other sites
JackJack Posted July 7, 2006 Share Posted July 7, 2006 I havent found out any additonal information. I tried to down load goldeneye software but my computer didnt accept it. I am going to try to call the number when I get off work. I will advise the out come. Thanks for the advice Let us know how things turn out. Hang in there. Link to post Share on other sites
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