very confused

[Daniel]

Im the 18 year old once again (hi) who really likes the 23 year old again. Ok...ever since i've asked her to eat something with me and me waiting a couple of days trying to act normal and waiting for a response, she has been acting very weird. Like she never says hi to me anymore or looks at me like she used to. she like just turns away. When I try and say something to her, like anything crack a stupid joke like I always do or say something casual she like gives me (i hate to say this) a dirty look. Then what really hurt me was when I asked her what time she gets off like I always do she said 11, but something in her eyes told me she was lying, I could just tell something wasnt right the way she said it. When I looked at the schedule, she was scheduled until 12 not 11. She has driven me a home a few times so I think she lied beacause she didnt want to talk to me. Whats going on??? Just because I asked her to eat something with me, she has to act like this??? What did I say wrong??? And the weird thing is... is that today at work when I was scanning food, she passed by me and all of a sudden said "Hi, Daniel" (chilllss) "Hi" i said. After like two days of acting like this she then says Hi to me again but nothing more. I worked my shift and when I left I passed by her register and said "Goodnight Genny" she said "Bye". That was weird. I just wish she'd pull me to the side and just tell me that she doesnt like me that way blah blah blah were just friends and all that, so I can just move on. I cant stand this waiting and suffering. PLEASE HELP.

[Richie]

Daniel,

 

I think, you have littly sense of humour. Add humor in your chat. Next time when you see her, Make the following conversation. (Keep teasing tone)

 

"So how many books you referred"

 

"For what?"

 

"I asked a question 2 days back. You said 'i don't know'. so i am just curious, you found out the answer or not"

 

"......"

 

"Well. Let me know your answer atleast before i become 60 years old"

 

One more thing, be very comfortable around her without any butteflies in the stomach or nervous or sweaty palms. Girls like confident, bold and humourous guys. Don't make her think you are longing for her. Girls usually run when you chase. And Chase you when you pull back. Don't sacrifice your self-esteem for anybody. Nothing is more worth than your self-esteem.

 

All the best.

 

-Richie

 

-Richie

[Jeff]

Hey, how's it going? I'm 21 and I had a situation like yours. I met an 18 year old about a month ago and hooked up with her. She was totally friendly. You could tell she really liked me. So I took her out and she still really liked me. It was great. The next week I saw her at and when I talked to her she was acting very cold. Sometimes she'd seem friendly when you'd least expect it but usually she just avoided me. Very different from the week before. It really depressed me but I was hoping it was nothing serious. I was so confused and worried. I finally asked her about it and she said she had a boyfriend. That sucked but at least I knew so I would stop worrying about her. Really sucked. Anyways, just ask the girl again if she wants to go out and make sure she gives you a response.. If she says no, then at least you'll know and can move on to better things. Not sure if that helps at all. Things sorta suck. Hopefully it works out good.

 

good luck

 

Jeff

Im the 18 year old once again (hi) who really likes the 23 year old again. Ok...ever since i've asked her to eat something with me and me waiting a couple of days trying to act normal and waiting for a response, she has been acting very weird. Like she never says hi to me anymore or looks at me like she used to. she like just turns away. When I try and say something to her, like anything crack a stupid joke like I always do or say something casual she like gives me (i hate to say this) a dirty look. Then what really hurt me was when I asked her what time she gets off like I always do she said 11, but something in her eyes told me she was lying, I could just tell something wasnt right the way she said it. When I looked at the schedule, she was scheduled until 12 not 11. She has driven me a home a few times so I think she lied beacause she didnt want to talk to me. Whats going on??? Just because I asked her to eat something with me, she has to act like this??? What did I say wrong??? And the weird thing is... is that today at work when I was scanning food, she passed by me and all of a sudden said "Hi, Daniel" (chilllss) "Hi" i said. After like two days of acting like this she then says Hi to me again but nothing more. I worked my shift and when I left I passed by her register and said "Goodnight Genny" she said "Bye". That was weird. I just wish she'd pull me to the side and just tell me that she doesnt like me that way blah blah blah were just friends and all that, so I can just move on. I cant stand this waiting and suffering. PLEASE HELP.