lil1010devil Posted July 9, 2006 Share Posted July 9, 2006 Me and my (ex)boyfriend dated for a year and a half. We had a mutual break up because we started fighting about stupid stuff. It was no longer about us, but everything around us. Well anyways, I really love him. We've been broke up for a month now, and I want him back so bad. I have trouble sleeping, I cry at night, I have nightmares, I think about him 24/7. He called me for the first time in a couple weeks the other day, and I like broke down after we hung up. He just now got a new girlfriend, but he says it kinda happened too fast. He told me he was sorry for hurting me and that that was never his intention. He begged me to still be his friend. I told him before we hung up that I still loved him, and he said he loved me, and that he always would. He also said he wanted to see me. I want to see him too. I miss him soooo much, and I really want him to be mine again. I just don't know what to do. Please someone help me! Link to post Share on other sites
magichands Posted July 9, 2006 Share Posted July 9, 2006 It was no longer about us, but everything around us. Don't you just hate it when the world gangs up on you like that. Ummm... What do you mean? Link to post Share on other sites
Chinook Posted July 9, 2006 Share Posted July 9, 2006 I'm sorry you're experiencing this. If he already got a new girlfriend, he moved on sweetie. To say he would always love you isn't true... he's with someone else, if he loved you he would be with you. I would not meet with him... and I would cut all contact with him now. A month is no time at all to get over someone you care about. If he's going to come back to you, he will make his own decisions and he's best doing that by himself without your influence on him. If he's meant to come back, let him go and he will come back on his own. Link to post Share on other sites
Guest Posted July 9, 2006 Share Posted July 9, 2006 Moved on after a month?! It's just a rebound thing. It doesnt mean that he will come back to her but i really dont think it means his feelings have gone for her. I suggest you two get back in touch and see how things go. Prob dont talk about relationship etc at first but just be nice to each other and keep it on safe ground. It sounds like you had clearly defined reasons for breaking up and that it wasnt about your feelings for each other? then that might be something you can work on IF you both want to do it. you need to find out. if you are going to do this though, the condition MUST be that he breaks off with the other girl. if he says he has and you find out he is still seeing her - CUT HIM OFF Link to post Share on other sites
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