Guest Posted July 10, 2006 Share Posted July 10, 2006 I have, possibly the most cliched, movie style problem in the world - the girl i like has an older boyfriend with a motorbike! I'm the geek, he's the jock. I could go on for about twelve pages explaining the situation, but i'll try to keep it short. I knew this girl... well not just knew, we kind of had a thing going (but not serious), anyway i recently saw her again after we drifted apart and got her new phone number. I thought i had to act fast because i didn't want to let a year slip by again, so a few days later i sent her a message asking her if she wanted to come down to a 70's night in my area. The messages she sent back were pretty fast and she sounded excited. I had told her that none of our old friends would be there, just me (and a couple of my friends). Anyway we got to talking when she arrived and i found out that she has a boyfriend, but not just any, a super-boyfriend (you know the kind, good at everything) he's 23, 5 years older than us! Oh and as i mentioned earlier he rides a motorcycle. All i want to know is what to do, i KNOW that she likes me as more than a friend and she didn't sound too enthusiastic about her new boyfriend. Should i back off or keep trying, i'm not afraid of her boyfriend, i just don't want to spoil what we have going. Before i left she said i'm really happy that i saw YOU and smiled. All the signals were there (she drove all the way accross town to see me at 10:30 at night after work, she was mirroring my movement, we kept eye contact for ages, i even got the hugs!). After i invited her out, she invited me out. She picked me up at 10:30 from my house and we went to this club (nothing special) it wasn't our thing so we left and we were wondering where to go next so she suggested that we go to a local supermarket. We went looked around and talked (this was at 1:30 am and she had work the next morning at 6:00). Anyway the point is she told me that the place we went was the place her and her boyfriend went on their first date. I don't know whether that is significant, if she was dropping hints or anything but there are so many things, i don't know what to think. We were sat REALLY close all night, she stayed out that late for me, she mentioned that that is where their first date took place, she complained about her b/f and sounded really unhappy with him and she didn't stop looking into my eyes. I'm probably reading to much into things but i don't know what to think... This is driving me crazy, please help. P.S I said i'd try to keep it short Link to post Share on other sites
Bogun Posted July 10, 2006 Share Posted July 10, 2006 Back off. She has a bf, so its up to her to make a decision if she wants you. Quit trying to get in her pants behind her bf's back. Link to post Share on other sites
Buttaflyy Posted July 10, 2006 Share Posted July 10, 2006 Exactly! You are not even in the equation because she has a BF already. Why are you even comparing yourself to him? He's the BF your the outsider. Link to post Share on other sites
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