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me and my ex still talk and hang out and everything but it is hard being with her but not be with her if you get what I mean, well she texted me last night and we talked she said she wants to be with me but she cant because she would go back to her bad habits of thinking of the bad rather than the good. What can I do?

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You have to be willing to work and you have to talk to her and both make your minds up to work at keeping the bad habits out of the relationship. take it slow, try starting all over. as far as the memories go, remember but throw out the grudges and the old fights, it will be fun and exciting to start new with her and you'll have a past that you guys can build on in the future.

 

but you BOTH have to be willing to work.

 

Where there's a will there's a way!

 

Best of Luck!!!!!

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there are 2 schools of thought re- reconciliation. some think it's best to completely forget about the last relationship and start again and not mention it at all. the second is to sit down and really talk through the previous relationship and work out what went wrong and how you could be better for each other and handle your differences better. this could be tricky because you dont want to upset each other but i really feel the latter is the best option; it will take some maturity on both of your parts to work through things without it turning into a fight but you dont want to just repeat the same patterns as before.... good luck!

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You have to be willing to work and you have to talk to her and both make your minds up to work at keeping the bad habits out of the relationship. take it slow, try starting all over. as far as the memories go, remember but throw out the grudges and the old fights, it will be fun and exciting to start new with her and you'll have a past that you guys can build on in the future.

 

but you BOTH have to be willing to work.

 

Where there's a will there's a way!

 

Best of Luck!!!!!

Hello there! I am in a very similar situation with my boyfriend. See, he broke up with me and I saw it coming because he was having some issues and I could just tell that something was wrong with him. Well, I respected his decision to try and have this break for a while. He now wants to talk to me and be with me and he says that he is just having a hard time with his own personal issues right now and he says that he is trying to make changes in his life. He wants to get back together with me but we have not been able to talk about it yet. I am waiting for him. I have done all that I can do which is to support him by leaving him alone when he asks for space or whatever. He is the one who needs to make the next move. I am almost positive that we will get back together, but he needs this time for himself to mature and figure out his own problems.

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