sugarcane05 Posted July 10, 2006 Share Posted July 10, 2006 I understand the concept of NC, I understand that he should not be texted or called regardless of how much I want to but how do I keep from it? I spend a lot of time sitting around twittling my fingers at work and then around ten at night it get's really hard to not text him. I miss him and find dumb excuses to text him but I know by watching what my friends ex's have done whenever they try the NC and hearing about it NC DOES REALLY SEEM TO WORK!!!!, I just don't know how to be strong enough for long enough so he will miss me! Just because he acts apathetic on the phone does that mean he's getting over me? Keep in mind this guy is very private and until he makes the decision that he wants something FOR SURE he may not show any emotion to caring at all. What do you guys think? Link to post Share on other sites
Guest Posted July 10, 2006 Share Posted July 10, 2006 Turn your phone off, hide it in a box on the top shelf if you have to. Do this at night "around ten" or just go to bed earlier to watch a really good movie that you can't tear yourself away from, "around ten". The fact of the matter is an idle mind is the devil's workshop. I'm saying this from experience, if you are bored and alone, you'll find a way to pick up your phone and start fiddling with it and then before you know it, you are texting him. Find something to do at those times when you are most vulnerable to contacting him. and eventually, NC will become a way of life for you, you will stop feeling the urge to contact him. Link to post Share on other sites
Author sugarcane05 Posted July 10, 2006 Author Share Posted July 10, 2006 Thank you that helps, that gives me some ideas!... and your right it's like a different part of me takes over for a second and then all the sudden we're in a texting frenzy and i'm like how did this happen???? Link to post Share on other sites
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