beansaregood Posted July 11, 2006 Share Posted July 11, 2006 ive known her for around 2 years now but for the first year and a half she has been going out with my other best friend. they have now broken up ad were pretty close. but i really like her but im not sure if i want to tell her or not. she tells me about this boy shes likes but shes cooling it off with him by playing hard to get. i dont know what to do. im in holiday in canada for 2 months and she is coming over in a week for 10 days. would a friend cross the ocean to come see you and spend around $1500 candian. the reason im posting is because what if she has come over here as a friend do i tell her while shes here or when we get back to belguim. what should i say to her im crazy about her Link to post Share on other sites
Moai Posted July 11, 2006 Share Posted July 11, 2006 Why not tell her? No matter what happens, at least you will have taken your shot. Chances are that she knows how you feel about her but only wants to be platonic friends. But you'll never know until you say something. Play it cool and don't be needy and everything will work out just as it should. I would wait for the right moment to tell her, though. When you get back to Belgium, probably. You've waited this long, a few more weeks won't hurt anything. Link to post Share on other sites
Author beansaregood Posted July 12, 2006 Author Share Posted July 12, 2006 the situation got a whole lot worse today. as her best friend she pretty much tells me everything well today shes gone round this guy house who she says she "luvs" what if they get together what am i supposed to do then?!?!? Link to post Share on other sites
Moai Posted July 12, 2006 Share Posted July 12, 2006 Nothing. She doesn't remotely consider you as a boyfriend. Find another girl. Link to post Share on other sites
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