overprotective parent

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i'm dating a sweet guy from my high school. he's a really good student and he's very polite (he's going to berkeley and doing pre-med and he always is very respectful and polite to my parents).

 

however, my parents don't like him because they think that we are getting "too close." (they spy on us and caught us kissing one time). so now the situation has blown up to horrible proportions. i snuck out a few times to see him and a few of those times they found out and got REALLY ANGRY. my mom has already written a really threatening email to my bf and she told me that we're never allowed to see or speak to each other again. i know i shouldn't have snuck out, but it seemed that my parents were being so irrational. don't they understand that their child has to date and start kissing boys at SOME POINT?? i'm not 13 years old. i'm 18.

 

my bf loves me so much and has stuck with me through thick and thin. it would suck to have to break up now. i'm going to brown university in the east coast after this summer and he's staying at berkeley. we wanted this summer to be our last one together, and now it's all ruined. if we're already breaking up, i don't know why we can't be together for a few months. i tried talking to my mother about this and she won't listen to anything i say. she keeps repeating that my bf is "ugly" (she doesn't like middle eastern men) and "a sex maniac" and just being very insensitive and insulting. our discussions usually turn into screaming matches. i have asian parents, which is probably why they're so difficult.

 

i need advice as to what i should do to make my parents let me see my bf before summer ends.

 

please help me. i'm nearly dying because of this.