Guest Posted July 17, 2006 Share Posted July 17, 2006 My brother has recently gotten back together with his ex-girlfriend. This ex-girlfriend has numerous psych problems and really needs counseling. She basically hops from boyfriend to boyfriend, looking for attention, money, and affection from whoever will give it to her. She previoiusly cheated on my brother, leading to their first break-up 1 year ago. My brother is the type of person that always goes for g/f's with issues, thinking that he can "save the day". He is also the type of person who ALWAYS has a g/f, and seems (IMO) to put his significant other ahead of his children time after time. My brother has 3 children and the g/f also has 3 children (both are divorced). Basically, the issue is that my brother is planning to come visit later this summer (he lives a few states away) and wants to bring his g/f. I told him that she is not welcome in our home. I don't like the impact that she has on my brother's 3 children, and I think that they BOTH need to deal with their issues before attempting any type of romantic relationship again. (There is a lot more history to this story, but I'm trying to keep this as short as possible.) Am I way out of line in asking him not to bring her to visit in my home? I don't want to cause undue stress in the relationship between myself and my brother, but I feel so strongly that he is making a terrible choice that I just can't help myself. Any constructive input on this matter would be appreciated! Thanks! Link to post Share on other sites
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