ctallen23 Posted July 19, 2006 Share Posted July 19, 2006 Hi. This girl that I dated for a short period of time now wants to simply be friends and she tickles the crap out of me all of the time. what does this mean? she says that I am a great guy and that she still has it in her to walk all over guys, and if they let her, she loses respect for them. Every time I see her, she wants to wrestle, and tickle. She came over sunday and we had a talk. she wanted to simply be friends but she kept tickling me and we would wrestle often. I sort of forced her to stay the night because it was very late. She was to leave adn I told her she wasn't driving home and for her to get up stairs. She did with no convictions. We went to sleep and didn't do anything. We kept to ourselves. The next morning she gives me a kiss on the lips and we tickle and wrestle each other. What the hell is going on here. She kisses, says she has been distant, wants to be friends, but still tickles and wants to wrestle. What am I to do???? Confused as hell............ Link to post Share on other sites
monkey00 Posted July 20, 2006 Share Posted July 20, 2006 mixed signals huh. when it comes to girls actions speak louder than words. sounds to me like she does in fact like you, or has high interest, however she may not be ready for a relationship. maybe not with you but perhaps someone else. however when a girl tells you that your just friends, it often means what i just said. i would note this as a fwb situation. Link to post Share on other sites
Butterflying Posted July 21, 2006 Share Posted July 21, 2006 This girl just sounds like a lot of fun. She's definately a touchy feely type person. And you seem to like it. I tickle children when I'm playing with them. When I was a child, people used to tickle me this way, too. Tickling always reminds me of childs play. The only time I get this behavior as an adult is when intimacy is involved. Perhaps, this could be her way of flirting with you. However, my mom tickles me sometimes when I'm feeling sad about something. She will tell me a joke. If I don't laugh, she will tickle me to force the laughter out of me. Laughter is good for you. As long as tickling doesn't bother you, enjoy it. But the kiss was very odd. That's out of line for a friendship. She either wants more, or you should beware of her trying to play with your emotions and walk all over you! Link to post Share on other sites
AwkwardMan Posted July 24, 2006 Share Posted July 24, 2006 Sounds like a fine problem to have. Just keep tickling/hugging/kissing her etc. It will resolve itself soon enough. Link to post Share on other sites
Fun2BMe Posted July 24, 2006 Share Posted July 24, 2006 That's ri-tickle-ous of her to lip kiss, tickle, wrestle and sleep in the same bed (or house, not sure what the sleeping conditions were). What's next? I would suspect tickling private parts while wrestling;) Link to post Share on other sites
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