Should this bother me?

[Matthew]

Here's the story:

 

My girlfriend and I went to a party this passed weekend, on Friday and we usually go to parties but nyway Yesterday (Monday) my girlfriend and I were watching a movie and I leaned over to give her a kiss but she wouldn;t open her lips to give me a french kiss, she knows I like them, I asked her why she wouldn;t give me a french kiss, it didn;t bother me that much but anyways she suddenly said "Do you think somethings going on? Do you think I'm cheating on you"? I was like "What? What does that have to do with anything" "Do you?" and I said "No why are you cheating on me?" She said no but we watched the movie and about 5 minutes later she said " Somethings been bothering me" and then she told me that when we were at the party another guy whom is a little runt and constantly calls her names and she says she hates was talking to her at the party leaned over and kissed her but she didn't say anything

 

to him or me...well she tells me two days later. Should I be glad that I was there? She probably would have cheated on me. I am going to beat the ##### out of that guy when I see him. He needs to keep his hands off other peoples girlfriends. How should I handle this with my girlfriend? Or should I do anything?

[sparkle]

I am going

to beat the ##### out of that guy when I see him. He needs to keep his hands off other peoples girlfriends.

I don't know about the rest...but don't go beating this guy up. That would be the most immature thing you could do right now. Remember, it takes two to tango. If he leaned over and gave her a peck on the cheek, she might have pulled away and told him clearly that she wasn't interested. Then you really have nothing to worry about.

 

Or if he kissed her on the lips...well it was up to her to stop him from doing so. I can most likely see a kiss on the lips coming and even if it's a half a second, that's still enough time for me to react.

 

And if he forced her to kiss him, I'm sure she she would have been angry and it would have caused a scene. So whatever you do, don't go beat up this guy because he didn't do anything to you. You need to discuss this with your girlfriend, not him. She can take care of clearing up the misunderstanding with this guy herself.

[Paulie]

Furthermore, if indeed your girlfriend "enjoyed" this kiss with the other guy (like sparkle says, it taked two to tango), and you go kick his ass, it makes you look like you care about her stupid ass too much.

 

Don't give her the satisfaction.

 

Paulie

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Here's the story: My girlfriend and I went to a party this passed weekend, on Friday and we usually go to parties but nyway Yesterday (Monday) my girlfriend and I were watching a movie and I leaned over to give her a kiss but she wouldn;t open her lips to give me a french kiss, she knows I like them, I asked her why she wouldn;t give me a french kiss, it didn;t bother me that much but anyways she suddenly said "Do you think somethings going on? Do you think I'm cheating on you"? I was like "What? What does that have to do with anything" "Do you?" and I said "No why are you cheating on me?" She said no but we watched the movie and about 5 minutes later she said " Somethings been bothering me" and then she told me that when we were at the party another guy whom is a little runt and constantly calls her names and she says she hates was talking to her at the party leaned over and kissed her but she didn't say anything

 

to him or me...well she tells me two days later. Should I be glad that I was there? She probably would have cheated on me. I am going to beat the ##### out of that guy when I see him. He needs to keep his hands off other peoples girlfriends. How should I handle this with my girlfriend? Or should I do anything?