littlekitty Posted August 14, 2006 Share Posted August 14, 2006 Littlekitty... that's how i thought it should be. my guy isn't quite getting that. Your guy has made you feel important in your relationship, but at the same time keeping with his responsibility as a Father. It's so much easier to deal with partners children, when they make you feel comfortable with the situation and include you in. It must be a beautiful thing. It honestly is wonderful and it makes me love and respect my SO all the more. I guess the only thing you can do is to give him one last chance to change? Formulate a clear idea of this areas that make you feel uncomfortable, and explain to him how you expect things to be dealt with. Explain that it is best for everyone that he start being honest, especially for his child who is getting a warped picture of his family. How can you be expected to marry and become a family, while in the past 2 years his child has been unable to form a relationship with you? You should be a family too. Does he imagine that you and his child will never have a relationship? He needs to stand up to his ex otherwise he will always be beholden to her whims, rather than his childs actual needs. If he can't make some move towards being honest with his ex, and acting the way you need him to, as a future husband, then you should call off the wedding. Then you should seriously consider your options. I don't see you being happy in this situation if nothing changes. Well.. you're already not are you? Link to post Share on other sites
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