Green Posted July 28, 2006 Share Posted July 28, 2006 If you have no experience in dating or being with a women then going straight out and becoming a stud or Casanova is a real task. It doesn't seem to be in your nature to hit on women so you will have to work on that aspect of your personality ( can you say shyness ) first. If you hit on the wrong types of women and they turn you down you may develop a rejection complex so go easy and maybe just go for a women you find attractive but isn't a star. The stars are hit on so many times you might get your feelings hurt until you learn more in the ways of romance. My advice is to go slow and develop your style. If you don't see someone that interests you go home alone. Do not just settle for a piece of a$$ because you are not ready to handle the emotional aspects of passion. The first time you bed a gal you may develop a strong attachment to her. Your first time should be with someone you care about and they you because it will leave a lasting impression on you. Just take it easy and talk to the gals, work on your mack and they will be waiting on you. A slow burn is better than a fast spurt in this case. I plan to hit on the so called stars, but I find a wide variety of women attractive so don’t think I’m planning on being some shallow Hal and only hitting on what society labels models. I may have no serious dating experience but I am a self proclaimed genius and I’ve seen the error of my ways. I’ve been on dates with girls before, sort of but I’ve really screwed up in the past and never got any sex during any of those. Thank you for looking out for me developing the dreaded rejection complex, but for me that’s not possible I’ve been rejected bad before and it only makes me want to try more so I’m looking forward to today because its Friday and might be my only day to go clubbing this weekend. If I don’t go clubbing I know that I will be buying some new shoes tomorrow so when I see cute girls there I should try to get their numbers! I didn't think Pedro was arrogant. It's just that I can picture him in NYC of all places announcing to every girl that he is Pedro the 22 year old virgin and he wants to get laid. Come on I’ve seen movies and lived life, I know better than to go places and announce to girls I’m a 22 year old virgin and I want to get laid. I’ll just introduce myself, ask a few flirty questions like what they like to do with their free time and why etc. and then try to get their numbers. Today I find out if I got this Job I’ve been wanting so bad, the extra pay should help me on all fronts. My best friend from High School is in town, I had a falling out with him in college but hopefully we hang out tomorrow it will help to have a wing man out on the town to help me meet new peeps! Link to post Share on other sites
Darkwall Posted July 28, 2006 Share Posted July 28, 2006 Pedro, you have restored my faith in you and I see nothing but opportunity coming your way. SOME ADVICE just be yourself, and relax. Let conversation be natural and not rehearsed. If you feel you have enjoyed someones company take that opportunity to tell them so. I think you'll do just fine, Romeo. Link to post Share on other sites
Green Posted August 20, 2006 Share Posted August 20, 2006 came very close to losing my virginity after a saturday night on the town drinking with a new female friend of mine. I brought this super hot girl I barely know back to my place and she spent the night, I mean this girl is modelesq and we were making out, and under the shirt in the pants touching in my bed. I really think had I tried I could have got her fully naked and screwing but I hope I made the right call by not just pushing it that night. I dont want to just jump into this head first... Link to post Share on other sites
Green Posted September 3, 2006 Share Posted September 3, 2006 Well 2 weeks later I hung with that same girl again, the really hot, really tall girl who should be a model because she is so damn hot. And I am a new man sort of, I am no longer a 22 year old virgin. I brought her home had sex with her last night, and then I had sex again this morning when we woke up. Sex was both more dificult and at the same time what I expected it to be. I still feel like the same guy now That I had sex but with more confidence. Link to post Share on other sites
quietintrovertgirl Posted September 3, 2006 Share Posted September 3, 2006 Is there any proud virgins in their 20 anymore?I mean you need to have sex to be a stud. Link to post Share on other sites
Green Posted September 3, 2006 Share Posted September 3, 2006 Is there any proud virgins in their 20 anymore?I mean you need to have sex to be a stud. No I was a virgin for a while and now I'm glad I got to have sex, When I started this thread I was a virgin, now I'm not. I still feel like the same guy, and sex was alot like I thought it would be. I'm glad I did it, but if some one wanted to be a virgin through out there entire twenties that would be a choice they would have to make. Link to post Share on other sites
littlepiggy1 Posted September 3, 2006 Share Posted September 3, 2006 This thread needs pics. Or videos. Link to post Share on other sites
Green Posted September 4, 2006 Share Posted September 4, 2006 This thread needs pics. Or videos. hahah yeah right this is anonymous right... Link to post Share on other sites
quietintrovertgirl Posted September 4, 2006 Share Posted September 4, 2006 KMT, Yes everybody has a choice about staying a virgin but i notice a seriuos pattern on online message boards when it comes to virgins.Most virgins think sex is the answers to everything. It's sad all i every hear is stories like yours.I NEED to get laid.I'm not a man or woman unless i have sex.Women or men won't want me unless i have sex. I would love to hear more virgins not depended on sex but on the relationship part. Link to post Share on other sites
wookinpanub Posted September 4, 2006 Share Posted September 4, 2006 Is there any proud virgins in their 20 anymore?I mean you need to have sex to be a stud. I'm 19 and proud to be a virgin. I'm not gonna run around advertising it, but I'm not afraid to admit it. Stud or not, I'm fine waiting for now, thank you. Link to post Share on other sites
Green Posted September 4, 2006 Share Posted September 4, 2006 KMT, Yes everybody has a choice about staying a virgin but i notice a seriuos pattern on online message boards when it comes to virgins.Most virgins think sex is the answers to everything. It's sad all i every hear is stories like yours.I NEED to get laid.I'm not a man or woman unless i have sex.Women or men won't want me unless i have sex. I would love to hear more virgins not depended on sex but on the relationship part. Look sex didn't solve any problems for me, I'm the same person. But I'm really grateful that I had it. I'm not part of some sad pattern on the internet so I won't defend the other posts you've read all I can say is for me it was something I needed to do. Your not a man so you don’t understand. and if you are a man then your a jerk to be questioning me like this. This wasn't about being in love for me, this was about filling a need that had just grown to big for me to ignore. Am I stud now just because I bedded a tall sexy blond, yep pretty much. And that’s all I have to say about that. Now is there any one who actually wants to congratulate me??? Link to post Share on other sites
quietintrovertgirl Posted September 4, 2006 Share Posted September 4, 2006 I'm 19 and proud to be a virgin. I'm not gonna run around advertising it, but I'm not afraid to admit it. Stud or not, I'm fine waiting for now, thank you. (kiss on the side of your face) your welcome and you are a stud. Link to post Share on other sites
quietintrovertgirl Posted September 4, 2006 Share Posted September 4, 2006 KMT, You're kinda proving my case about some ex-virgins/virgins.You're not a stud just because your penis went inside a virgin that's not hard to do.Any man can be a stud if that's the case. I'll give you your congrat for now but i'll FULLY give you some congrat when you can be in a relationship and bed a tall blond at the same time.This is something ex-virgin/virgin have a hard time doing. Link to post Share on other sites
Green Posted September 4, 2006 Share Posted September 4, 2006 well thank you for giving me something. Your getting to seriouse though cmon were grown ups here I know theres more to life then good times. I even wrote a disclaimer within my very first post that I fully respect people who are into abstinence. The point is you should see hope in what I've written not because I had sex but because I pulled off something very dificult what most people in this forum was saying was imposible within such a short period of time. So thank you for sharing, and thank you for caring but I'm wiser then you relize and I'm telling you to feel inspired not depressed, and stop being such a paradoxical person... Link to post Share on other sites
quietintrovertgirl Posted September 5, 2006 Share Posted September 5, 2006 KMT, Virgins who want to lost thier virginity via commitment aren't supported when people hear virgins like you.It's so easy to give up and have sex but i'm speaking up to let people know.There are sex with commtiment virgins out there who need to be respected,supported and given a chance in the dating scene.We are normal and studs too. Link to post Share on other sites
Green Posted September 5, 2006 Share Posted September 5, 2006 So are you a virgin, if not when did you lose your virginity? dont be shy no one knows who you are after all just be honest. I'm curriouse to hear what you say I'm not asking just so I can attack you if you say something young, or something odd so let me know? Link to post Share on other sites
quietintrovertgirl Posted September 5, 2006 Share Posted September 5, 2006 KMT, I'm a 36 year old nonreligous virgin female and i'm waiting to lose my virginity via LT boyfriend or husband. I never had a boyfriend or ever been out on a date ever in my life. I don't put sex before verbal intimacy but I do know how to express myself sexuality.That's my story Link to post Share on other sites
burning 4 revenge Posted September 5, 2006 Share Posted September 5, 2006 Congrats on popping your cherry KMT Link to post Share on other sites
Green Posted September 5, 2006 Share Posted September 5, 2006 KMT, I'm a 36 year old nonreligous virgin female and i'm waiting to lose my virginity via LT boyfriend or husband. I never had a boyfriend or ever been out on a date ever in my life. I don't put sex before verbal intimacy but I do know how to express myself sexuality.That's my story Aha! Just like I thought it was! Now I don’t know whether or not to believe a word you say because you may just get your kix from messing with me but if you are telling the truth you've only seen it from one side of the coin. Its great that you have such a positive attitude about never going on a date in your life and being a virgin, and I'm in no way telling you to just go out there and have sex, you live your life in the way that it works for you and that’s fine. I just hope your not avoiding connection with some people in your life. Link to post Share on other sites
Green Posted September 5, 2006 Share Posted September 5, 2006 I can already see a black eye somewhere in Pedro's future There weren't any black eyes but I came close when I mouthed off to some guys down town. I didn't think Pedro was arrogant. It's just that I can picture him in NYC of all places announcing to every girl that he is Pedro the 22 year old virgin and he wants to get laid. I didn't even tell the girl I was a virgin. Congrats on popping your cherry KMT Thank You for that, To the next time I want more! Link to post Share on other sites
quietintrovertgirl Posted September 6, 2006 Share Posted September 6, 2006 Aha! Just like I thought it was! Now I don’t know whether or not to believe a word you say because you may just get your kix from messing with me but if you are telling the truth you've only seen it from one side of the coin. Its great that you have such a positive attitude about never going on a date in your life and being a virgin, and I'm in no way telling you to just go out there and have sex, you live your life in the way that it works for you and that’s fine. I just hope your not avoiding connection with some people in your life. KMT, The men who come into my life want casual sex and that's why i never had a boyfriend or went out on my first date ever in mylife.I'm trying not to give up on men but sex rules in the end.I'm starting to give up on men. This is my dream KMT for the next 5 years..I want to casual date men as a single woman without intercourse and before i commit to Monogamous long term relationship or marriage.Well i guess my dream will never come true. Link to post Share on other sites
Green Posted September 6, 2006 Share Posted September 6, 2006 probably not with that attitude but look at the bright side and I'm sure things will work out Link to post Share on other sites
quietintrovertgirl Posted September 6, 2006 Share Posted September 6, 2006 probably not with that attitude but look at the bright side and I'm sure things will work out KMT, I think you should look in the Frienship thread on Love shack.My luck just got worse.I just lost some friends to the incel board. My"Friends" rather choose a board then be friends with me so my luck right noe is zero.I'm tired of being betrayed and not having loyality ny people. Hmm i have no luck with me and having friends. What a life. Link to post Share on other sites
Green Posted September 6, 2006 Share Posted September 6, 2006 KMT, I think you should look in the Frienship thread on Love shack.My luck just got worse.I just lost some friends to the incel board. My"Friends" rather choose a board then be friends with me so my luck right noe is zero.I'm tired of being betrayed and not having loyality ny people. Hmm i have no luck with me and having friends. What a life. No friends thats so sad. Well I have lots of friends and the trick is to make them where ever you go. You make friends at work, you make friends at school, and in clubs. Go take one of those night classes for art or something I bet you'll make tons of friends. Now I go through up and down phases but that happens to every one maybe Link to post Share on other sites
quietintrovertgirl Posted September 6, 2006 Share Posted September 6, 2006 KMT, I keep befriending unhealthy people in my life.I'm trying to figure out a way not to be friend mess up people. Link to post Share on other sites
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