blind_otter Posted July 22, 2006 Posted July 22, 2006 each woman has her own way, and each way is different. Sorry. No simple answer.
dgiirl Posted July 22, 2006 Posted July 22, 2006 When they answer yes when you ask them if they like you
samsungxoxo Posted July 23, 2006 Posted July 23, 2006 Ross, every women uses different ways to either drop hints to the guy that she likes him or to let him know. Some use the so called useless "Waiting strategy" where they shyly smile or play with their hair and then they wait for the guy to say "I like you". Another methos is the "direct approach", which is when the girl straightly tells you "I like you". Some don't like being so obvious because they think this will scare the guys away. While others know what they want and aren't afraid to just say it, even if it means rejection at times. Now which method would be the best: A) Waiting, not to obvious strategy or B) Aggressive, "just tell him so" method The second option off course
stoopid_guy Posted July 26, 2006 Posted July 26, 2006 Simple: They confuse us. As soon as I understand them, I know they're not interested.
Author Ross_K Posted July 28, 2006 Author Posted July 28, 2006 just tell us the predicament(sp?) you're in!!! Well, I just wanted to know what things women do when they're interested, so then I'll know whether a woman offline has ever been attracted to me.
alphamale Posted July 28, 2006 Posted July 28, 2006 generally, if you find you penis inside one of her orifices its a good sign that she probalby likes you....
Yamaha Posted July 28, 2006 Posted July 28, 2006 If you have to wonder if she likes you then either she doesn't or she is playing you. It is usually hard not to convey like to someone your interested in. It just comes out in the way they look and act around you. If you're in doubt then you can always tell them you like them and see if the feeling is mutual.
Chinook Posted July 28, 2006 Posted July 28, 2006 How do women show interest in a guy? To be honest, right now... with great difficulty! (there is no guy!)
Author Ross_K Posted July 29, 2006 Author Posted July 29, 2006 If you have to wonder if she likes you then either she doesn't or she is playing you. It is usually hard not to convey like to someone your interested in. It just comes out in the way they look and act around you. So the fact that I have to wonder means that no women have ever been interested in me offline? I knew it.
alphamale Posted July 29, 2006 Posted July 29, 2006 If you have to wonder if she likes you then either she doesn't or she is playing you. It is usually hard not to convey like to someone your interested in. It just comes out in the way they look and act around you. . Agreed YAMAHA....If a particular woman really really likes you then you will know for sure. She'll go out of her way to let you know (but it may not be verbal). So the fact that I have to wonder means that no women have ever been interested in me offline? I knew it. Look R_K, before u go jumping off a bridge....let me tell you that as you get older, it becomes easier and easier to hook up with chicks.
SoCalCatman72 Posted July 29, 2006 Posted July 29, 2006 generally, if you find you penis inside one of her orifices its a good sign that she probalby likes you.... Dammit alpha, you just made me spit coffee all over the keyboard. :laugh::lmao:
Author Ross_K Posted July 30, 2006 Author Posted July 30, 2006 Agreed YAMAHA....If a particular woman really really likes you then you will know for sure. She'll go out of her way to let you know (but it may not be verbal). Look R_K, before u go jumping off a bridge....let me tell you that as you get older, it becomes easier and easier to hook up with chicks. I thought it was supposed to get harder?
stoopid_guy Posted July 30, 2006 Posted July 30, 2006 I thought it was supposed to get harder? Is that intended as a pun? I've always found women 25+ easier to talk to, and more aware of what they want. As far as telling whether or not they're interested? Short of them saying it outright or saying "yes" when you ask them out, give it up. Some will act shy, some will be more outgoing, some will simply make eye contact...
stoopid_guy Posted July 30, 2006 Posted July 30, 2006 I'm 30 but it hasn't got any easier. Just have to try. Talk to women, they're just people. And remember, the worst thing that can happen is they say "no." I once saw a guy at a beach. You could tell he was walking along propositioning women. Every one I saw him proposition said "no." But you know what? There were miles and miles of beach. If he asks 200 ladies and just one says "yes..."
lindya Posted July 30, 2006 Posted July 30, 2006 Well, I just wanted to know what things women do when they're interested, so then I'll know whether a woman offline has ever been attracted to me. Well, there are all those old Desmond Morris studies about pupils dilating, legs being crossed towards you etc...but getting too hung up on trying to analyse someone's body language will prevent you from focusing on them and what they're saying. A lot of women just don't chase. Bear in mind that you're living in a country where people are quite a bit more shy and reserved than they are in a lot of other countries. "Attracted" body language is often deliberately concealed, and some people will even be almost rude towards those they fancy...purely out of nerves and embarrassment. I know, I've seen it. Been it even, when I was in my teens. You want to know whether a woman offline has ever been attracted to you. Nobody here can help you get a definite answer to that one, but I think the more pressing concern is why you're thinking along those lines. ie "Has anyone ever fancied me?" is essentially what you're asking here, and that sounds as though your confidence is running a bit low at the moment. If so, can you identify something specific that triggered that?
Author Ross_K Posted July 30, 2006 Author Posted July 30, 2006 Well, there are all those old Desmond Morris studies about pupils dilating, legs being crossed towards you etc...but getting too hung up on trying to analyse someone's body language will prevent you from focusing on them and what they're saying. A lot of women just don't chase. Bear in mind that you're living in a country where people are quite a bit more shy and reserved than they are in a lot of other countries. "Attracted" body language is often deliberately concealed, and some people will even be almost rude towards those they fancy...purely out of nerves and embarrassment. I know, I've seen it. Been it even, when I was in my teens. You want to know whether a woman offline has ever been attracted to you. Nobody here can help you get a definite answer to that one, but I think the more pressing concern is why you're thinking along those lines. ie "Has anyone ever fancied me?" is essentially what you're asking here, and that sounds as though your confidence is running a bit low at the moment. If so, can you identify something specific that triggered that? I don't know if I'm confident in myself generally, but as far as attracting women I have absolutley no confidence. What triggered that? The fact that as far as I'm aware, not one single woman in the whole of my life offline has ever acted as though she was attracted to me. Even if I'm missing subtle signals (which I doubt), there should have been at least one woman who has blatantly hit on me, it's happened to 99% of the rest of the population. Something is seriously wrong here. You know there's this woman in my area, who is interested in having sex with near enough anyone, she's really kinky and everything. I once thought that I might, just might have a chance with her. When I told someone this, they spoke to my sister about it, and she said 'Why would she be interested in him?' You can't believe how bad that made me feel. Even the woman who is interested in having sex with just about any man with a pulse, wouldn't be interested in having sex with me. I felt like killing myself, wow, my self esteem really took a plunge that day. So even my sister can see that there's something unbelievably unappealing about me, as far as attracting women is concerned. And before anyone say's it's just my attitude, it isn't, like I said at the begining of this post, I got this attitude & low confidence from women never being interested in me, and incidences like the one with my sister.
alphamale Posted July 30, 2006 Posted July 30, 2006 I don't know if I'm confident in myself generally, but as far as attracting women I have absolutley no confidence. What triggered that? The fact that as far as I'm aware, not one single woman in the whole of my life offline has ever acted as though she was attracted to me. Well you look fairly normal from your avatar, assuming that is you... You can't believe how bad that made me feel. Even the woman who is interested in having sex with just about any man with a pulse, wouldn't be interested in having sex with me. I felt like killing myself, wow, my self esteem really took a plunge that day. Sounds to me like you need to maybe become a bit less sensitive & nice. Although women may say they are attracted to those qualities they are generally not thought of as being "masculine". Forget everything your mom and sister taught you or told you. So even my sister can see that there's something unbelievably unappealing about me, as far as attracting women is concerned. yeah, well your sister is full of **** I got this attitude & low confidence from women never being interested in me, well, the man does have to do SOMETHING to make females interested. He has to have something to offer them. What do you have to offer? What could you offer if you made some changes in yourself?
Author Ross_K Posted July 30, 2006 Author Posted July 30, 2006 Well you look fairly normal from your avatar, assuming that is you... Yeah it is me, but there's also photo's where I look really ugly. Sounds to me like you need to maybe become a bit less sensitive & nice. Although women may say they are attracted to those qualities they are generally not thought of as being "masculine". Forget everything your mom and sister taught you or told you. You think I'm a nice guy? I dunno, maybe I am. I don't relaly feel like one though. yeah, well your sister is full of **** She wasn't being nasty or anything, she wouldn't say something like that if she didn't mean it, she was just being honest. well, the man does have to do SOMETHING to make females interested. He has to have something to offer them. What do you have to offer? What could you offer if you made some changes in yourself? You don't have to do anything to make females intially attracted, you just need to have normal body language and for the woman to find you physically attractive. What I have to offer is physical touch (cuddling, stroking hair, whatever), being caring and understanding, sex, and I dunno what else.
stoopid_guy Posted July 30, 2006 Posted July 30, 2006 You don't have to do anything to make females intially attracted, you just need to have normal body language and for the woman to find you physically attractive. Simply not true! You have to stand out somehow. Be funny, make her smile. Take a friend's puppy for a walk. You want her to show interest? You have to give her reason.
alphamale Posted July 30, 2006 Posted July 30, 2006 You don't have to do anything to make females intially attracted, Yeah maybe if youre a rich, famous and good looking actor or rock star....then you may not have to do anything. But most of us men have to do something and offer something.
Author Ross_K Posted July 30, 2006 Author Posted July 30, 2006 You don't have to do anything to make females intially attracted, you just need to have normal body language and for the woman to find you physically attractive. Simply not true! You have to stand out somehow. Be funny, make her smile. Take a friend's puppy for a walk. You want her to show interest? You have to give her reason. What about guys in bars or clubs that women approach and hit on? They aren't always doing something to stand out.
alphamale Posted July 30, 2006 Posted July 30, 2006 What about guys in bars or clubs that women approach and hit on? They aren't always doing something to stand out. yes they are....they're being good looking. in bars you'll see most women showing interest in the good looking masculine men.
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