Guest Posted July 23, 2006 Share Posted July 23, 2006 After 2 years an ex decided to knock on my door and ask for my telephone no. He rang 6 times the first day, i answer the sixth call and he says he wants to come and hang out. Im like ok sure. He doesnt show up of course I ring him and ask for an explanation he says, he was sick, he replies with I will visit next weekend. So its sunday still hasnt shown. Wondering what do i do now I'm angry want to text him tell him to stay away and stop messing with my head. Or do i just delete his number and refuse to answer his calls. If he knocks on my door looks at me i weaken, he knows this. When we broke up two years ago, he cut contact off with me on my birthday, with no explanation, changed his phone no, and avoided me. It hurt and I dont want to go through this again, but I know he has troubles, and I still feel for him hoping I will be the one who can change him. What should i do? Link to post Share on other sites
Ukwizard Posted July 23, 2006 Share Posted July 23, 2006 Hi there. How about more information please. Who brok up with who? Where there any circumstances up to or before whoever left? Link to post Share on other sites
Brittanyjean06 Posted July 23, 2006 Share Posted July 23, 2006 Usually I guess, the ones who come back are the ones who have left us. Some of the things us ex's and other ex's will never really know is how that person actually truely felt when leaving. Sure they moved on or have made it look like they moved on. But some don't and come back later...much later, regreting their decisions Link to post Share on other sites
Guest Posted July 23, 2006 Share Posted July 23, 2006 Hi there. How about more information please. Who brok up with who? Where there any circumstances up to or before whoever left? You want the long version sure, the way we met was through a gf of mine, we talked on the phone for almost a year before we met. We spent a night together but he had personal committments, child matters, and we spoke on the phone after that but not as often. He showed up one day bout six months later telling me things were sorted and that he would like to have a realtionship. We were only together for 28 days, long relationship huh, but it was nice and we had spent so much time talking before that that we were close. We went out on my birthday the first night we went out together, and things just went wrong from the time we left, his ex wife at the hotel we went to, a girl following him around all night, i got angry and told him i was leaving, the next day he was cold, i apologised but he wouldnt forgive me. The next afternoon i asked him not to leave me he said he wouldnt but he dropped me off and avoided me from that moment on. Link to post Share on other sites
heartnsoul Posted July 23, 2006 Share Posted July 23, 2006 My advise to you would be to move on from this guy. Ignore future attempts of contact. Had there been any sincerity in his attempts with you ... he wouldn't have blown you off like this. No stability there. Sorry Link to post Share on other sites
Guest Posted July 23, 2006 Share Posted July 23, 2006 My advise to you would be to move on from this guy. Ignore future attempts of contact. Had there been any sincerity in his attempts with you ... he wouldn't have blown you off like this. No stability there. Sorry Turns out the guy needs somewhere to live for a few week, men are just lovely creatures. When we were together I offered my rumpus room to him, seems he thought that taking the room was a better offer than having me. How can people be so selfish, and how dumb was i to think this guy wanted me. Link to post Share on other sites
Ukwizard Posted July 23, 2006 Share Posted July 23, 2006 He doesnt show up of course I ring him and ask for an explanation he says, he was sick, he replies with I will visit next weekend. So its sunday still hasnt shown. This is not a good sign for a second chance. If this is happening now, so early then can you imagine how it will be in the future. It could be the fact that he is seeing someone else like you say, he had other committments, and child matters. Could it be possible he`s seeing someone already? is he looking for a bit on the side? It looks like his committments are elsewhere. Link to post Share on other sites
Ukwizard Posted July 23, 2006 Share Posted July 23, 2006 Usually I guess, the ones who come back are the ones who have left us Not always true Brittanyjean. Sometimes the people who leave us, they leave for a reason. Not always true because you do get people who date around, and they find the one they want. My ex girlfriend dated up to 6 people! I was number 3!! I was the longest one after her separation with her husband. I lasted 7 months. The other guys were 2-3 months. She seems happy wth her new boyfriend, although whos to say during the time they are together she`ll find out things she won`t like about the new guy. To say the ones who left are the one who come back. I dont think even in my own scenario. Its more likely than not, that they don`t come back at all!! Link to post Share on other sites
Brittanyjean06 Posted July 24, 2006 Share Posted July 24, 2006 Well let me rephrase that haha It goes both ways. People you leave, may come back to you later in time for a second chance. And people who leave you may or may not ever come back. Link to post Share on other sites
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