livingalie Posted July 23, 2006 Share Posted July 23, 2006 Hi. I posted about a week ago about a serious matter that this board just deleted, so I'm not even going to share what is going on in that situation so don't ask. Now, on a more humorous note, I have this need to always go down on my hubby and am not satisfied If I can't. It's to the point where he tells me to stop acting crazy. We've been together for years and I just enjoy it now so much that I just wait for him to ask me to do it but a lot of time it never happens. What is wrong with this and why cant he just take it all the times I want to give it? Link to post Share on other sites
Tony T Posted July 23, 2006 Share Posted July 23, 2006 The role of men in the sex act is a bit different from women. We can only get it up and keep it up so much in any given amount of time. Our dicks get sore when overused. We tire if the sex is particularly active. There is only so much semen produced at any given time and once that has given out with no time to replenish, a man can have sex forever (if he has the strength left) and not have much of an orgasm. I think your guy is lucky to have a lady who wants to do it all the time. He would also be lucky if he could find some discount coupons for you to get an extra heavy duty vibrator to take some heat off of him while he regains consciousness. Link to post Share on other sites
Author livingalie Posted July 23, 2006 Author Share Posted July 23, 2006 Lol. that was funny. Truth is though (sorry i didnt give out more info) that i can get LUCKY if he will let me do it once a day! Mostly it's like once every few days or once a week. And he's young, so i dont understand. But sex has tapered down over the past 7 years. He has like some weeks where he will want sex every day and then other weeks where he just wants nothing but to hold. I'm just wishing it was every day. Link to post Share on other sites
stoopid_guy Posted July 23, 2006 Share Posted July 23, 2006 As nice as they are, BJs can get old. When a man really care for a lady, he may want to be closer, he may want to be looking closely into your eyes, he may want to be kissing your mouth or neck, he may just want more skin-to-skin contact. Have you tried 69-ing? That way, you get to give him a BJ and you both get more contact. Link to post Share on other sites
Platoface Posted July 23, 2006 Share Posted July 23, 2006 I wish my wife had that problem. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
lindya Posted July 23, 2006 Share Posted July 23, 2006 Go easy on your husband's winkle, or it might turn into a small wooden stick bearing that well known proverb "Confucius say woman who sucks too much ends up with fuzzy end of lollipop". Have you tried chewing gum? Link to post Share on other sites
stillafool Posted July 23, 2006 Share Posted July 23, 2006 I don't mean to pry but do you swallow every time or do you do a half and half? If you swallow every time it could be that he wants to reserve the semen for vaginal sex. Link to post Share on other sites
stoopid_guy Posted July 23, 2006 Share Posted July 23, 2006 I don't mean to pry but do you swallow every time or do you do a half and half? If you swallow every time it could be that he wants to reserve the semen for vaginal sex. Considering the nature of this thread, I can't imagine "prying" being a concern. Link to post Share on other sites
whichwayisup Posted July 23, 2006 Share Posted July 23, 2006 Don't your jaws get sore and your tongue? How long do you go down on your husband. Just curious. Link to post Share on other sites
Horse Posted July 23, 2006 Share Posted July 23, 2006 Weird... More than 2 or 3 times a day might get old, but if my wife wanted to go down on me every day, I would be a happy camper. There are several threads about women who have higher sex drives than their husband... Maybe something in one of those threads can help you understand it. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Brittanyjean06 Posted July 24, 2006 Share Posted July 24, 2006 Ha ha " winkle " Maybe you should try resisting the tempations to go down on your hubby. Maybe he will notice that and want you to more I'm not sure how much in depth you should answer my question But what do you like so much about it? ( Just wondering ) Link to post Share on other sites
Guest Posted July 24, 2006 Share Posted July 24, 2006 Ha ha " winkle " Maybe you should try resisting the tempations to go down on your hubby. Maybe he will notice that and want you to more I'm not sure how much in depth you should answer my question But what do you like so much about it? ( Just wondering ) Yeah, I'm curious too... what's so good about it? I think it sucks (no pun intended). Link to post Share on other sites
Brittanyjean06 Posted July 24, 2006 Share Posted July 24, 2006 Well actually I was asking that question knowing what her answers might be! I think you just find it to be a really big turn on when you find him in pleasure. And you like to suck on things. No big woop haha Link to post Share on other sites
lindya Posted July 24, 2006 Share Posted July 24, 2006 Ha ha " winkle " When I was a child, I used to go down to the beach and gather winkles for my grandmother. She liked to cook them. Link to post Share on other sites
JamesM Posted July 24, 2006 Share Posted July 24, 2006 I too wish my wife had that problem. I have to say that every day might get old. He might feel like he doesn't have to chase yu for it either....that is why we guys are jealous. When/if my wife does it (thankfully she will at times...rare), then I feel like I should lead into regular sex. I feel selfish if I let her finish me to the end. And truthfully, I think she expects me not to let her finish that way. Maybe your husband feels selfish? Does he question your motives? Link to post Share on other sites
marriedwithtwo Posted July 24, 2006 Share Posted July 24, 2006 You shouldn't have to ask him, just do it! Man, what a dream, I can't imagine that EVER getting old, as long as there was normal sex as well. Is the rest of your sex life suffering as a result of this? Have you talked with him if there is something he does not like about it, or is it he just doesn't like it as often as having sex. My goodness, what a fantastic problem to have. Link to post Share on other sites
Author livingalie Posted July 26, 2006 Author Share Posted July 26, 2006 You shouldn't have to ask him, just do it! Honestly, I would just do it.. and I have, but I'm so tired of rejection now. Instead, I just wait till he gives me certain signals to initiate it. I guess I'm not a good one at handling rejection.. I don't even initiate sex anymore. Ugh. I hope he gets a sex boost soon. And to the other who asked why: I used to hate it, but since have techniques where it doesn't hurt my mouth really and I love knowing I'm satisfying him. It might stem from the fact that I felt he cheated on me a long time ago. I don't think he did, but there are doubts. And I feel a bigger need to give him pleasure and him getting it out of me. I don't know if any of that made any sense, but oh well. Link to post Share on other sites
mariJane Posted July 26, 2006 Share Posted July 26, 2006 Hi. I posted about a week ago about a serious matter that this board just deleted, so I'm not even going to share what is going on in that situation so don't ask. Now, on a more humorous note, I have this need to always go down on my hubby and am not satisfied If I can't. It's to the point where he tells me to stop acting crazy. We've been together for years and I just enjoy it now so much that I just wait for him to ask me to do it but a lot of time it never happens. What is wrong with this and why cant he just take it all the times I want to give it? well it is your hubby so id say not a problem going down on him, but if he sais that just try it sporadically to give him the excitment of o this time im gettin it right! if he had his finger itchin your belly button and you moved it down you wouldnt want him to keep scratchin you belly button lol right! Link to post Share on other sites
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