d1rtysecret Posted July 24, 2006 Share Posted July 24, 2006 Been chatting to this girl now for about 6 months, we get on great, had many nights of long emotional chats. Recently she started a new job, about 4 weeks ago now and while i can understand the stress of starting new work she appears to have changed. She tells me she loves me, she wants to be with me and she wants to meet me so i arranged and booked a flight to go see her. My flight is now only 10 days away but for the past 4 days she has been ignoring me totally. I say i love you, or i miss you i get nothing back, not even an ok. fine. ditto. nothing. I try to speak to her but again she just ignores me. Could it be that she is nurvous or even scared about us meeting for the first time or could this be something a little more serious. We have mutual friends and they tell me she is just depressed or sad at the moment, but i dont understand why she cant share her feelings with me instead of leaving me in the dark. Link to post Share on other sites
BohemeRose Posted August 5, 2006 Share Posted August 5, 2006 Have you tried asking her if she was feeling alright? It's one thing to ask mutual friends, but it's probably best to go directly to the source. She could be nervous about meeting you, fearing a change in the relationship after you've actually met. Most would think things would get better after meeting in person, but there's always a fear that things will go wrong. Good luck. I hope the trip works out for you. Link to post Share on other sites
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