Dating Tips ( )

[mightymitch]

Girls are somewhat different from women(obviously)...i've been through enough encounters with girls..and a few with women(19,20)...i much rather a women(they know what they want)...that can range from 16 & up...i imagine so...im still 17 and much more to learn of women and life it's self.......and yeah i know your thinking WOW what the hell does he know anyway...well i know enough...i could have had sex 10 or more times...could have had 4 relationships...i know it sick to say i know this... but i am picky.. not for looks...thats instinctive to man/women...but for what women are inside...poential...so to say like going to a used car lot...you see a car..you see potiential in most of them...is it worth fixing up...or just leave it...we all had things happen in our lives to make us who we are today... small things or big events in our lives that make us take that different route in life..we are who we are and are destined to be in life...ANYWAYs... ..............

I am not a risk taker when it comes to taking a chance on a girl...i am scared of they're beauty and power.. it amazes me...but when the right one comes along it will fade( i hope)... at my age finding a girl suitable for me is a bit rough...i mean i live 10 mins. away from Bourbon Street..yeah the big N.O ..party city...still after Katrina... whooohoo!.....just girls are so rapped into looks and some it takes a while for them to see through it... most girls want that fine young man that all girls lust and now that girl who has found this wonder of a man... realizes why am i in tears every night...why does he treat me like dirt and bosses me around...but im so blinded i cant see whats happening all my friends tell me but i dont listen...until its to late...i have seen girls go for the *******s...and when i think i know it all...this question still amazes me ..why are girls attracted to *******s...some are aware.. and most arent...the younger age are more vaulnruable to this by much older guys....

ADVICE: when you notice a fine women or girl walk by(corner eye) dont aknowledge them, no contact no flirt...this i presume drives them mad..unless they have a boyfriend or just really doesnt care..but most fall for it...its fun ... but not nice..always present yourself for a lady..polite..EYE CONTACT...

Good ways to get a girl to know you exzist......

1. IF SHE WERE TO TRIP AND FALL.. HELP HER UP.. ASK HER IF SHES OK, OR THE LUCKY ONES PREVENT THE FALL AND CATCH HER...THATS THE KILLER...ITS ALL ABOUT PUTTING YOURSELF IN HER MIND...MAKING YOU HER ONE THOUGHT OUT OF THE MANY THAT DAY..STAND OUT FROM ALL THE REST ...BE YOURSELF....

2. TO MEET A GIRL IS COMPLICATED...IN AWAY...SOME GUYS HAVE TO DO NO MORE THAN LIFT A FINGER...SOME LIKE ME HAVE TO MOVE A MOUNTAIN...SOME GUYS ARE CUT FOR THE MEETING PART OF THE GIRL...OTHERS HAVE TO PLAY THE GAME ON HARD...TO JUST GET THERE ATTENTION...GUYS...YOU HAVE TO FIND THE RIGHT MOMENT IN TIME... SOMETIMES ARE NOT THE RIGHT TIMES FOR MEETING THAT PATICULAR GIRL...WAIT... BE PATIENT...BE COOL...RELAX...NOW...I AM.....I WAS VERY WHIPPED...AND IN SOME CASES I STILL AM....BUT...YOU...THE GUY NEED TO MAKE A BALANCE IN THE WHOLE SCENARIO....BE YOURSELF WHEN YOUR WITH HER OR AROUND YOUR FRIENDS(<------IMPORTANT),

3) ********************************************************

wHEN YOU MEET A GIRL AND YOUR INTERESTED....TEST HER..HERES A LITTLE MIND INVENTION I CALL the m game.......WHEN YOU ARE WITH THAT GIRL (ALONE OR WITH YOUR?HER FRIENDS) ____(DONT TRY THIS IF ITS A ONE NIGHT STAND GIRL, IT WOULD BE A WASTE OF TIME) ....BE RELAXED THINK TO YOURSELF YOU DO NOT HAVE A CHANCE WITH HER SO DONT ACT DIFFERENT...THIS THOUGHT IS TO SOFTEN THE SOIL...NOW....DONT TRY...JUST TALK...AND LISTEN....LISTEN.....LISTEN...SMILE....SMILE...LAUGH..EYE CONTACT..NEVER LOOSE FOCUS...NOW DONT STARE ..BUT AT CRITICAL TIMES IN THE CONVERSATION GLANCE AND SMILE AT HER... AND WHEN THE DAY IS OVER TELL HER YOU REALLY ENJOYED HER COMPANY AND WOULD LIKE TO MEET AGAIN...STOP...DONT ASK HER FOR HER NUMBER...IF YOU CAN WALK AWAY...POLITELY...AS IF YOU FORGOT TO ASK...(WORKS BETTER WHEN THE GIRL YOU KNOW IS A FRIEND OF SOMEONE ELSES)...THEY WILL IF AT ALL INTERESTED (WHICH IF YOUR GOOD WOULD PICK THAT UP) WILL TRY TO REACH OR ARRANGE ANOTHER DATE...THATS THE TIME TO ASK HER...PATIENCE IS INDEEEEEED A VIRTUE WHEN MEETING WOMAN...DONT LASH OUT AND ASK FOR THERE NUMBER...OR GO FOR A KISS...OR MAKE AN ASS MR EGOTISTICAL MACHO *******...CAUSE YOUR BOUND TO GET SERVED...PROPS TO YOU LADIES...

4.) LUCK.........BOY DO I NEED IT.....NOW BY SOME MAGICAL MOMENT YOU MEET A GIRL ALL CHEMISTRY IS MIXED PERFECTLY...AND ITS BUTTERFLY TIME...YOU'LL KNOW THIS MOMENT OF WHICH I SPEEK...RARE..BUT POSSIBLE...ITS LIKE THAT FEELING YOU GET WHEN YOU GET DONE MAKING OUT WITH THAT SPECIAL SOMEONE, THAT GAZING MOMENT AFTERWARDS....ITS SPECAIL...

--------------------------------------------------------------------------

Eye contact is indeed important but can be abused and will...the moment to do this is best in talkitive areas...coffee shops restuants...barss...when you know the one your looking for ....and she sees you...gaze it might feel like everything is slow....now quickly look back because she will to... she was maybe courious...checking out her surroundings... judgement...

--------------------------------------------------------------------------i too crave for a relationship....and i see it through my eyes as this

LOVE IS LIKE PAINTING...YOU WANT TO MAKE SOMETHING BEAUTIFUL(LOVE)...BUT HOW CAN YOU PAINT WHEN YOU HAVE NO BRUSH....

THIS GOES THROUGH MY MIND.....I WANT THIS...I DESIRE....YOU CANT WANT AND GET LOVE.....WAIT AND YOU WILL RECIEVE...IM STILL WAITING...AND IF THE LOVE IS TRULY BEAUTIFUL...YOU WILL LOOK BACK AND SAY...IM GLAD I WAITED....SOMETIMES WE NEED TO BE CAREFULL AND NOT RUSH INTO THINGS ...YOU DONT KNOW WHAT DOOR YOUR OPENING....IF YOU FALL RISE...THERE IS ALWAYS A LESSON LEARNED...IT WILL HELP YOU ALONG THE WAY...NEVER GIVE UP....WE WILL FIND THAT RIGHT ONE FOR US....

AND GUYS DO NOT LISTEN TO YOUR GUY FRIENDS ON ADVICE ON.... GOING WITH THEM OR HER....GET HER THIS...ASK HER THIS ...TELL HER THIS...SHOULD I DO THIS...I MIGHT JUST REALLY ...SCREW UP THINGS FOR YOU COMPLICATE THINGS FOR YOU...

 

IF ANY FINISHED THIS IM AMAZED.....GUYS WHEN YOUR 16,17,18....FOCUS ON YOUR LIFE DONT LET GIRLS OR THAT ONE GIRL BE ON YOUR MIND 24/7...GRANTED DONT IGNORE THEM ..........BALANCE........PATIENCE........CONTACT............HOPE(AND THATS WHERE PAIN COME IN, FALSE HOPE)...........COURAGE(LOW SELF ESTEEM CAN BE A GOOD THING, JUST GO IN NOT GIVING A CARE IN THE WORLD , BE YOURSELF , DONT PUT ON AN ACT, BE COOL, BE WITH YOUR BOYS, LET THE GIRLS BE , IF ANYTHING MIGHT HAPPEN THATS FOR YOU TO SEE....

GOOD LUCK

[engravefeelthevoid]

I find this a rather interresting essay, I have to admit I enjoyed it cuz it was more like reading myself out...I'm 17 at the moment...and what you said about the pain in this time is so true...I'm very patient and play tough to get attention..better than regrets..cuz they say.."to destroy is easier than to rebuild"....and When I lose I don't lose the lesson too...but what I've recently noticed is that everytime I gain experience that pushes me further in ther next relationship..but it seems that there is no limit ! you just keep going foreward to find a point you can't manage the relationship and you just fail or give up...

 

on the other hand..I believe that everything will be easier after graduating from high school...since girls will be ready for all this..more willing...and our experience will prove qualified for the task...but for the moment as said...16-18 ppl should focus on going to a decent University and build a good future.

[Pink Amulet]

Argghhh, why have you made it so hard to read!!??