mightymitch Posted July 26, 2006 Share Posted July 26, 2006 Since i was about 16 i have always wanted a relationship. As i got older and more in tuned with life i realize its not all about the sex, and relationships built off lust. When i meet different girls or go into a conversation with one, i in a sense feel them out, try and see her inner beauty, what she really is inside. Most guys focus on the center region of a girl, i tend to focus more on whats up and to the left. I love women, if there were a study course on women you bet i would be there. I just want to know so much about them, and i notice I get caught up in everyday life like we all do, and tend to loose focus. Whether its getting caught up in the party life, getting lost in our own iner struggles, or wrapped up with your friends. Now im not saying its bad, i mean deal with your problems, and try and get your thoughts together, and then go out and find that special someone, she's out there. Now im going on 18, and i have always hung out with friends two years older than me, so ive been through alot and experimented along the way. I know its hard to find a girl with a good head on her shoulders and thats what i want. I sit and think, i have my life as far as i know figured out, have a job, going to colledge and later taking over a company. It feels like i have completed every part of me up to this moment in time, job, education, future lined up, but thers one thing missing. I feel incomplete, i want a relationship, but i know better than to rush into one, and at my age its hard to find that right one. I live by the city New Orleans, i mean if yall know anything about it its party heaven. Girls at my age are so wrapped into livin life, and hat just makes it more of a complicated matter. I have been in a relationship built off lust, we only enjoyed that side off it, based our relationship on it, we were happy in that way. Dont get me wrong it was fine, but didnt last long. Girls ive meet had bad family back ground, and i wanted to help, go wrapped up with her, she dragged me down with no help for herself. Might just be that i have a case of bad luck, i meet snobby girls, into the money and living a materalistic life, i guess it pays to be apart of her life style. I have seen girls leave me for the jocks, and watch thm get put down and treated like dirt. I guess i cant say i told her so. Like prior to my writing before WHY ARE MOST GIRLS ATRRACTED TO JERKS, because they look good dosent mean they're gona treat you good. I mean i cant say that you wont find the perfect guy, just like i will eventually find the right one for me, its possible. I just think most people have patience problem, and really thats all it takes, support and patience. We can do it, take chances, dont be afraid, know hat the right one is out there for you, and love if it is true, is worht to me waiting a life time. <PLEASE IF YOU HAVE ANY QUESTIONS FEEL FREE TO COMMENT> Link to post Share on other sites
Yamaha Posted July 26, 2006 Share Posted July 26, 2006 WHY ARE MOST GIRLS ATTRACTED TO JERKS, Maybe not jerks but they are looking for fun guys. You sound way serious for a guy 18 years old. Are you already looking for your soul mate? I would just enjoy your youth and let things happen rather than trying to put yourself in a box. Link to post Share on other sites
Author mightymitch Posted July 26, 2006 Author Share Posted July 26, 2006 Maybe not jerks but they are looking for fun guys. You sound way serious for a guy 18 years old. Are you already looking for your soul mate? I would just enjoy your youth and let things happen rather than trying to put yourself in a box. i agree, but i really want someone by my side to experience it with me. Link to post Share on other sites
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