Rageaholic Posted July 27, 2006 Share Posted July 27, 2006 Ok here is a typical situation.... Every morning I go grab a coffee in the food court in my building, and there is this female cashier who I did not really pay attention to at the "beginning" But as weeks past by I am beginning to find her more and more attractive. What sparked my interest was that she liked one of the shirts I was wearing, and asking such questions as how was your weekend. So day in day out she would know what coffee without even asking .... as if she were prepared for my arrival. I am a shy person and I might be thinking to critical about the situation ... but it is kindov bugging me. I think.... she has an interest in me... Bottom line is what do I do in a situation like this ? Its quite difficult to start a conversation when there are other ppl in line needing caffeine. Link to post Share on other sites
amaysngrace Posted July 27, 2006 Share Posted July 27, 2006 Its quite difficult to start a conversation when there are other ppl in line needing caffeine. I think it's charming that you find her interest in you attractive. That shows promise. You should reciprocate. You don't need to hold a major conversation, but ask her about her in a light way. Or give her a genuine compliment. Maybe in time you will have the opportunity to get to know her better, but in the meantime, there's nothing wrong with being friendly. Link to post Share on other sites
johan Posted July 27, 2006 Share Posted July 27, 2006 Yeah. Just be friendly. Chat with her, if it's convenient. I don't generally find that it's good form to make moves on women who are trapped behind a register and are paid to be friendly. But if you think she's giving you attention she doesn't offer to the other customers, then maybe there is some interest there. But, if she is interested, it's a limited-time offer. If you don't feel comfortable making a move, which is completely understandable, then just forget about it. After 6 months of asking you about your shirts and your weekends, she's going to give up. If you get around to trying something at that point, it will be even more awkward than it is now. I wouldn't mention your username, by the way. Link to post Share on other sites
amaysngrace Posted July 27, 2006 Share Posted July 27, 2006 I wouldn't mention your username, by the way. Good point. Link to post Share on other sites
Pyro Posted July 27, 2006 Share Posted July 27, 2006 Ok here is a typical situation.... Every morning I go grab a coffee in the food court in my building, and there is this female cashier who I did not really pay attention to at the "beginning" But as weeks past by I am beginning to find her more and more attractive. What sparked my interest was that she liked one of the shirts I was wearing, and asking such questions as how was your weekend. So day in day out she would know what coffee without even asking .... as if she were prepared for my arrival. I am a shy person and I might be thinking to critical about the situation ... but it is kindov bugging me. I think.... she has an interest in me... Bottom line is what do I do in a situation like this ? Its quite difficult to start a conversation when there are other ppl in line needing caffeine. I agree with everyone else. be friendly and make small talk, and if you ever have the opportunity to, go back to the food court at a time where the business is slow there. That should give you more time to get a chance to talk to her. Link to post Share on other sites
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