loveinlife Posted July 28, 2006 Share Posted July 28, 2006 Just curious, what do you ladies look when you first see a guy? What makes them attractive? Lastly, what kinds of qualities of a man do you ladies like? Link to post Share on other sites
Pink Amulet Posted July 28, 2006 Share Posted July 28, 2006 Ambition, and an adventurous spirit. Laziness is a huge turn-off. When I first see a man who I find very attractive, he is not going to be wearing designer clothes, or have colored hair. I like my men masculine, and rugged. Dirty hair, sexy tanned arms, stubble... pretty boys are not my cup of tea. Link to post Share on other sites
burning 4 revenge Posted July 28, 2006 Share Posted July 28, 2006 loveinlife, you already know the real answer is money Link to post Share on other sites
magichands Posted July 28, 2006 Share Posted July 28, 2006 loveinlife, you already know the real answer is money All you need is love. Romance needn't be expensive, but the more modest (and perhaps more meaningful) kind requires creativity. Link to post Share on other sites
burning 4 revenge Posted July 28, 2006 Share Posted July 28, 2006 All you need is love. Romance needn't be expensive, but the more modest (and perhaps more meaningful) kind requires creativity. :lmao: :lmao: Link to post Share on other sites
Author loveinlife Posted July 28, 2006 Author Share Posted July 28, 2006 Thanks all for posting. Any comments are welcome, i hope its not all about money. Link to post Share on other sites
Guest Posted July 28, 2006 Share Posted July 28, 2006 well first i look for a ring on their hand, and whats attractive is hard to say its one of those things that you just are or arent , i think the eye contact does me in. i look for the quality of a whole person, and NO it is not all about the money!!! Link to post Share on other sites
Outcast Posted July 28, 2006 Share Posted July 28, 2006 I look for intellect in his eyes. And humour. I hope for good-naturedness. And open-mindedness. And some other things that, when combined, make a guy very attractive. But finding the whole package in one guy is pretty rare. Link to post Share on other sites
a4a Posted July 28, 2006 Share Posted July 28, 2006 I look for intellect in his eyes. And humour. I hope for good-naturedness. And open-mindedness. And some other things that, when combined, make a guy very attractive. But finding the whole package in one guy is pretty rare. That used to be my reasoning to keep several on hand..... Link to post Share on other sites
alphamale Posted July 28, 2006 Share Posted July 28, 2006 And open-mindedness. I would think he would HAVE to be open-minded to hang out with you! Link to post Share on other sites
Shyguy86 Posted July 28, 2006 Share Posted July 28, 2006 loveinlife, you already know the real answer is money If that's true, than I'm screwed!!! Link to post Share on other sites
Outcast Posted July 28, 2006 Share Posted July 28, 2006 That used to be my reasoning to keep several on hand..... HA! And the other day you were saying that you knew lots of guys who had all that. NOW the truth outs! Hmph. Alf, please put me back on ignore. 'Cause it's just so, so, sooooo old. Hey guys - newsflash! Alf doesn't like me! Aren't we all surprised? Isn't it just a big laugh riot every time? Link to post Share on other sites
alphamale Posted July 28, 2006 Share Posted July 28, 2006 Hey guys - newsflash! Alf doesn't like me! no OUTCAST, its not that i don't like you. I just enjoy the playful banter... Link to post Share on other sites
beach Posted July 28, 2006 Share Posted July 28, 2006 A man is attractive when he has a firm sense of who and what he is all about. He needs to be intelligent, have a good sense of humor and interested in a variety of things in life... I like it when a men carries himself with self confidence. Link to post Share on other sites
arc Posted July 28, 2006 Share Posted July 28, 2006 multi layered sense of humour intelligence - not necessarily of the academic variety, more of a well defined sense of curiousity coupled with self awareness gentleness/sensitivity - by this I don't mean ultra PC 'new man'. I mean someone who is comfortable with his masculinity and doesn't have to be 'macho' playfulness - I'm 33 and still climb trees, so I need the company of a man who won't roll his eyes if I start a pillow fight passionate - not just talking romance here, more a general passion for something in life, whether its a hobby, sport, career, family. Preferably one I share myself sensual, open minded, tolerant, honest, courageous Not so much of a tall order either - sums up my own boyfriend nicely Link to post Share on other sites
Buttaflyy Posted July 28, 2006 Share Posted July 28, 2006 Just curious, what do you ladies look when you first see a guy? What makes them attractive? Lastly, what kinds of qualities of a man do you ladies like? Alpha men! Link to post Share on other sites
alphamale Posted July 28, 2006 Share Posted July 28, 2006 Alpha men! Link to post Share on other sites
stillafool Posted July 28, 2006 Share Posted July 28, 2006 I like him to be smart, clean, his own man, kind and honest, good sense of humor, likes animals and employed or self employed. Looks are not that important if he is well groomed. Link to post Share on other sites
MWC_LifeBeginsAt40 Posted July 28, 2006 Share Posted July 28, 2006 Ambition is important to me, but in an older post of mine I was accused of being a gold-digger for saying that. I'm attracted to different things and tend to give guys benefit of the doubt if I'm not immediately attracted, such as in the way they respond to me, verbally, emotionally, physically. Sense of humor, eyes and smile, and how they treat people in general. Link to post Share on other sites
alphamale Posted July 28, 2006 Share Posted July 28, 2006 Ambition is important to me, but in an older post of mine I was accused of being a gold-digger for saying that. "Ambition" is woman-speak for a man who already has ca$h or has the potential to get ca$h. Link to post Share on other sites
SoCalCatman72 Posted July 28, 2006 Share Posted July 28, 2006 A man is attractive when he has a firm sense of who and what he is all about. Ummmm, we're men. We only pretend to know who and what we're about, then midlife hits. :p:p Link to post Share on other sites
MWC_LifeBeginsAt40 Posted July 28, 2006 Share Posted July 28, 2006 "Ambition" is woman-speak for a man who already has ca$h or has the potential to get ca$h. ya I think it was YOU alpha! By ambitious I mean not lazy as another poster mentioned in this thread. For example, if the shower leaks, he'll fix it. If the fence needs repair, he'll get off his butt and fix it. If my tires are low he will take my car and put air in the tires, change my oil and wash my car and pick up flowers for me on his way home:D Link to post Share on other sites
alphamale Posted July 28, 2006 Share Posted July 28, 2006 By ambitious I mean not lazy NO...by "ambition" most women mean career-wise and earnings-wise. Most women don't give a rat's ass if the guy will fix the busted garbage disposal I he's "ambitious" enough and makes six figures then someone can be hired to fix whatever needs fixin'... Link to post Share on other sites
K1llpr0n Posted July 28, 2006 Share Posted July 28, 2006 guys that have a good sense of humour and can keep it in their pants for more than 30 seconds are nice ....so that makes them attractive..also...guys that call a girl "beautiful" or even "pretty" rather then "youre hot, wanna ****" lol. Link to post Share on other sites
a4a Posted July 28, 2006 Share Posted July 28, 2006 NO...by "ambition" most women mean career-wise and earnings-wise. Most women don't give a rat's ass if the guy will fix the busted garbage disposal I he's "ambitious" enough and makes six figures then someone can be hired to fix whatever needs fixin'... so true..... so so true........ but I am shallow so I have to have a hot ambitious well endowed funny caring man that can bend like gumby. I cannot train a man to be ambitious...... but I can train him to buy me flowers and diamonds Link to post Share on other sites
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