sickinside Posted July 28, 2006 Share Posted July 28, 2006 Well I finally feel a sense of justice and maybe a bit of revenge. H and I went to court yesterday for our divorce settlement. I was scared to death. My lawyer and I presented our settlement and they agreed to everything.Alimony for 2 years which I am not really entitled to and no shacking up with his gf during visitation. I now have this on the record so he fails to comply he will be in contempt of court. The kicker is that my H just wants our marriage over that I think he agreed to anything. Well he is now having "buyers remorse" and threatened to take me back to court and "cancel everything"(those were his intelligent words)Fortunately for me everything is now set in stone. I thought I was going to wake up this morning and feel bad but I feel better than I did yesterday. I guess this is my bit of payback for the year of hell I have endured. things never seem to catch up wth him but finally they have. The icing on the cake is his ex in england is now going after support as well.(she find out what he was ordered to pay me and is not very happy) I guess it is true, "what goes around comes around" Link to post Share on other sites
Ladyjane14 Posted July 28, 2006 Share Posted July 28, 2006 I almost missed your post earlier. Glad to see your update, and that things went well for you in court. It's good that you're feeling upbeat about it all too. I doubt there's much your husband can do about the judge's decision, despite whatever "buyer's remorse" he might have. I'm not a lawyer, but my observation of other folks dealing with legal matters after the court's decree is that there usually needs to be a 'change in circumstances' before the case can be reviewed. My advice to you would be to stay out of contact with him as much as possible. You don't want to be the focus of all his ill-will. Interacting with him right now would be like painting a big target on your forehead. He's likely p*ssed off and looking for someone to blame for it. Hopefully, his ex back in England will get a bite out of him too. It's not right for a parent to abandon their kids like that. Maybe he'll put a little more effort into thinking things through before he impregnates anybody else. If so, you've done a good deed in helping his life-skills education along. Link to post Share on other sites
cerebus Posted August 24, 2006 Share Posted August 24, 2006 Why not have a little fun as well. try looking at paybacksrhell.com and have a little fun with H while you are at it. Link to post Share on other sites
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