hyjacked Posted July 28, 2006 Share Posted July 28, 2006 Didn't think it could ever be a concern in my lifetime that I would be the one not to be able to cut it but thats been a growing worry. She's done everything for me for 10 yrs and I want her to be happy but Ive noticed for a while Im failing to cut it. I guess it's the over 40 prime kicked in for her. I know she gets hit on and I see her @ss being stared down anywhere we go. I remember all to well how frustrating it gets and how you feel when your S.O. is not cutting it and what it can easily lead to so much of the time. I personally did what I thought would never happen and got into having affairs the 1st marriage. A Blond, blued eyed wife with an hr glass 115 lb figure is not a woman you want to leave sexually frustrated & dissatisfied not to mention I dont want to let her down. We have sex nearly everyday but she wants more and definetly Im failing in the intensity dept she's needing. How dumb is it to say to the Dr. I have sex nearly everyday and I need a pill to help me have more? Link to post Share on other sites
MWC_LifeBeginsAt40 Posted July 28, 2006 Share Posted July 28, 2006 Are you having sex the same time of day when you have it? Maybe she more variety will help curb her appetite for a while and help you keep up? For example, try surprising her with a mid-afternoon session, kidnap her from work for a quickie at lunch or something like that. Or sneak out onto the golf course late at night and have atter on a secluded green! Link to post Share on other sites
a4a Posted July 28, 2006 Share Posted July 28, 2006 Honey is that you??? :eek: Shoot you sound like my H..... cannot keep up with me.... bless his little heart. Your wife sounds like me.... (that is not you is it hon?) No you do not want to leave her unsatisfied.... same thing used to happen here. H too tired and me a just chompin at the bit for some hot monkey love. There are other ways to satisfy her sexually besides just straight reg. sex. I will let others list them..... my hand is too tired to type because I was busy earlier with it. Link to post Share on other sites
Mz. Pixie Posted July 28, 2006 Share Posted July 28, 2006 Honey is that you??? :eek: Shoot you sound like my H..... cannot keep up with me.... bless his little heart. Your wife sounds like me.... (that is not you is it hon?) No you do not want to leave her unsatisfied.... same thing used to happen here. H too tired and me a just chompin at the bit for some hot monkey love. There are other ways to satisfy her sexually besides just straight reg. sex. I will let others list them..... my hand is too tired to type because I was busy earlier with it. Damn, you beat me to it, A. I was about to say the same thing. My husband probably feels this way. Just today at lunch I was like, "I'm a little hungry- how much time do we have?" I told him that many men would give their right arm to have his problem!! Link to post Share on other sites
a4a Posted July 28, 2006 Share Posted July 28, 2006 Damn, you beat me to it, A. I was about to say the same thing. My husband probably feels this way. Just today at lunch I was like, "I'm a little hungry- how much time do we have?" I told him that many men would give their right arm to have his problem!! and their left nut. I tell ya... if it slacked off that much I may have been forced to look for a little sumptin sumptin.. .. but H got the message...... I have guys hitting on me right smack in front of him.... I told him..... best get to work boy or you may find yourself unemployed and replaced His sex drive has increased 20 times since we now have sex more often..now he wants it as much as me. so boink more because it makes you want more boinkin! Link to post Share on other sites
Mz. Pixie Posted July 28, 2006 Share Posted July 28, 2006 and their left nut. I tell ya... if it slacked off that much I may have been forced to look for a little sumptin sumptin.. .. but H got the message...... I have guys hitting on me right smack in front of him.... I told him..... best get to work boy or you may find yourself unemployed and replaced His sex drive has increased 20 times since we now have sex more often..now he wants it as much as me. so boink more because it makes you want more boinkin! I think that's true. I'm making up for lost time though because in my first marriage I didn't have a good sex drive! I keep telling him I'm functioning in deficit! :lmao: Actually, we do have sex almost everyday that we're together. In all fairness he works two, actually three jobs and he is not home some nights at the same time I am!! Unless I want to be woke up in the middle of the night to have sex- and face it, I love it but not that much when I have to work the next day, it's not happening on those nights! It's hilarious to me because I could have taken it or left it before. I don't even need that much foreplay with my man now! Link to post Share on other sites
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