DawnMN73 Posted July 31, 2006 Share Posted July 31, 2006 Hello All Something has been on my mind a bit & i was looking for some advice so i came here. I have been dating this great guy for a little over 5 months now. He is great & we get along great. He is tall, good looking, has a great job, his own house, very close with his family, treats me great, caters to me, cooks me dinner ALL the time, doesn't lie, would never cheat, etc. However, there is 1 thing about him that bothers me a bit. I noticed over the months that he is a slight hypocondric. His father died at a young age, 52. His mom has had so many things happen to her over the years, like got diabeties, triple bypass surgury, gall bladder removed, 4 eye surgeries, & a few other things that i can't remember. He is 41 years old & has seen what happened to his parents, that now he is so paranoid that something it going to happen to him. He's not a full blown hypochondric, he doesn't go running to the doctor or anything like that, he just says things to me. Would this bother u at all? There are so many pluses in my man, & this one negative thing. Trust me, I myself am not perfect! Please i need advice on this one!! Link to post Share on other sites
magichands Posted July 31, 2006 Share Posted July 31, 2006 He is tall, good looking, has a great job, his own house, very close with his family, treats me great, caters to me, cooks me dinner ALL the time, doesn't lie, would never cheat, etc. However, there is 1 thing about him that bothers me a bit. You're right - he's too perfect. But seriously now, does he know that it bothers you? Is he a carpe-diem type of dude, or how do you think this affects his day to day outlook on life? I guess it is understandable, but everybody will die of something. Heritability is a (extremely) complicated thing - a family history of disease is really nothing more than that (especially when he is healthy right now?). Link to post Share on other sites
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