Passion4love Posted August 2, 2006 Share Posted August 2, 2006 ok, so I'm friends with this guy and I have told him I liked him.. I even went far as asking him if he liked me but he gave me some sly answer saying it wouldn't work out because of the distance and 1 or so age difference because Im a lil bit older then him, those issues really don't phase me right now because I have strong feelings for him. I know he feels something also because he flirts a lot with me and mentions how pretty I am and says other things.. maybe it's because he is young also and doesn't wanna settle down.. but I feel a connection with him and I don't know what to do because one time I feel like he likes me and then the next I feel like he is pushing me away, he also told me in the past that he likes fighting for something that is hard to get. If anything I am putting myself out there.. do you think im putting myself too much out there and should back off or play hard to get? I kinda feel like he is playing hard to get because it seems like he doesn't care a lot or pushes away and then soon as I talk about another guy he gets mad.. so I dunno what to do in this situation???? any help or words of wisdom would be apperciated. Link to post Share on other sites
Zeeboo Zebuloo Posted August 2, 2006 Share Posted August 2, 2006 Sweetie, he's probably gay...or he likes you, but he doesn't 'like you' enough to take you out and treat you like a proper girlfriend...or he's a tightass cheapskate who doesn't believe in dates...or he just enjoys the idea of a nice girl who's crazy about him and he gets off on your adoration. (sigh) Some men like to be coy & play games...it sucks. I KNOW. The best thing to do is 'take your ball and go home'-Next time, try to fall in love with someone who fancies you for a change! The right person is out there. Don't give up... Link to post Share on other sites
Mary3 Posted August 2, 2006 Share Posted August 2, 2006 ok, so I'm friends with this guy and I have told him I liked him.. I even went far as asking him if he liked me but he gave me some sly answer saying it wouldn't work out because of the distance and 1 or so age difference because Im a lil bit older then him, those issues really don't phase me right now because I have strong feelings for him. I know he feels something also because he flirts a lot with me and mentions how pretty I am and says other things.. maybe it's because he is young also and doesn't wanna settle down.. but I feel a connection with him and I don't know what to do because one time I feel like he likes me and then the next I feel like he is pushing me away, he also told me in the past that he likes fighting for something that is hard to get. If anything I am putting myself out there.. do you think im putting myself too much out there and should back off or play hard to get? I kinda feel like he is playing hard to get because it seems like he doesn't care a lot or pushes away and then soon as I talk about another guy he gets mad.. so I dunno what to do in this situation???? any help or words of wisdom would be apperciated. There is no * challenge * for him. He KNOWS you like him and he unfortunately has decided to play around with your feelings. This is really common nowdays . I see more of this now than I ever had before. Lose this guy. You are going to get hurt. Link to post Share on other sites
Author Passion4love Posted August 2, 2006 Author Share Posted August 2, 2006 thanks a lot for the advice. it has helped me rethink everything and you both are right, apparently he doesn't want anything and there is no reason to get myself hurt through the process. Any more opinions and advice is still welcomed from others. Link to post Share on other sites
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