Chi-guy Posted August 2, 2006 Share Posted August 2, 2006 My ex and I have been officially broken up for almost 2 months now. We've been going out for 3 years. We got into an argument but settled it and she accepted my apology. But basically she doesn't want to put up with that anymore so she finally throws in the towel on us. These past 2 months have been hectic because I lost the best thing that has happened to me. It's been a mixture of no contact and me desperately trying to get her back. Right now she says she's in a "confused" state and wants "space,time, and patience." Ever since she said that I've backed off a lot more even the fact I found out she was seeing someone else that wasn't serious. It's been a obvious progression from her not answering my calls in the beginning to us having breakfast last Sunday which was the first mutual get together we've had since we broke up. When we were together feelings were like a head on crash collision. We laughed, cried(i did), hugged, held hands, kissed and wanting more! She told me the guy she was dating was a jerk. I kept my comments to myself and just said "sucks for him" and we kind of just laughed it off. Now it may seem like everything is going smoothly, but she still needs her space and would rather enjoy her single life at this point. Me being a typical Taurus, my stubborness has it's good and bad qualities. Good because I never will give up trying to make things work between us. I just know for sure she is the one in my heart and will never make the same mistakes I've made in the past. On the flipside my impatience is getting the best of me and I really don't know what to do from here. Last time we were together we agreed she would let me know when she's free so we can hang out. Summer is almost over and whatever is remaining I want to spend with her. Asking and prodding seems like it's scaring her. What should I do? Link to post Share on other sites
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