That_girl Posted August 3, 2006 Share Posted August 3, 2006 Some backround info:confused: : Ever since my parents split up, my brother has assumed the position of the 'dad' in my house. My mom is very trusting with me and allows me to come and go as I please (being that I am 20) but my brother who is 22 won't even let me have my guy friends over- he's got a ridiculously bad temper and he completely freaks out whenever a guy tries to pick me up. Last weekend, a few friends and I decided to go to the same club that my brother and his friends were at. So we got there and met up with them...everyone was having a good time, and my brother was actually happy that I came (and brought some hot friends of mine). Things were fine untill after having a few drinks, a friend and I walked up to my brother's best friend Steve and starting dancing with him. I've known this dude for about 10 years as well, and he's never hit on me or made any sexy/romantic gestures towards me. However, that night he danced with me every chance he got when my brother's back was turned..and eventually he asked me if I wanted to go to a different level in the club. Drunkenly I took his hand and he led me downstairs when my brother, his friends, and my friends stayed upstairs. Down on the lower level, things were gettin hot between Steve and I. He put his arms around me as we danced, and kissed my neck gently. It was the sexiest thing that's ever happened to me because it just felt so wrong. But anyway, I turned to face him (so that I could touch his pecs of death) and he moved in really close to my face and started kissing me. I couldnt resist him..not only because he is sexy as hell...but because it felt so much better than making out with some random person. I've known Steve for years, and I've always had a crush on him but I didnt think that he noticed me in that way. Well, not enough to make out with me behind my brothers back. Anyway, as we were dancing my brother popped out of nowhere behind us, practically tossed me across the club and started yelling at his friend. He hadnt spoken to me for two whole days after that, and now that we are speaking- he hasnt mentioned the whole thing even once. I think he just completely wants to forget about that image of his best friend and I. What concerns me is what I should do now. I really like Steve and would love to see him behind my brother's back. BUT, I'd feel really guilty. And also, I dont know if Steve is even interested in me, or if he just wanted a piece that night. My friends were telling me that he wasnt taking his eyes off of me in that club, and that he was constantly looking around for my brother. I'm not sure though if he could really be into me though...he told me himself that night that the reason my brother was so pissed off was because he knows that he (Steve) has a bad reputation with women (he likes to screw around) and he doesnt want that happening to his little sister. If anyone has any imput to offer, it would be greatly appreciated. So sorry for the long read. Link to post Share on other sites
silentcharon Posted August 3, 2006 Share Posted August 3, 2006 Some backround info:confused: : Ever since my parents split up, my brother has assumed the position of the 'dad' in my house. My mom is very trusting with me and allows me to come and go as I please (being that I am 20) but my brother who is 22 won't even let me have my guy friends over- he's got a ridiculously bad temper and he completely freaks out whenever a guy tries to pick me up. Last weekend, a few friends and I decided to go to the same club that my brother and his friends were at. So we got there and met up with them...everyone was having a good time, and my brother was actually happy that I came (and brought some hot friends of mine). Things were fine untill after having a few drinks, a friend and I walked up to my brother's best friend Steve and starting dancing with him. I've known this dude for about 10 years as well, and he's never hit on me or made any sexy/romantic gestures towards me. However, that night he danced with me every chance he got when my brother's back was turned..and eventually he asked me if I wanted to go to a different level in the club. Drunkenly I took his hand and he led me downstairs when my brother, his friends, and my friends stayed upstairs. Down on the lower level, things were gettin hot between Steve and I. He put his arms around me as we danced, and kissed my neck gently. It was the sexiest thing that's ever happened to me because it just felt so wrong. But anyway, I turned to face him (so that I could touch his pecs of death) and he moved in really close to my face and started kissing me. I couldnt resist him..not only because he is sexy as hell...but because it felt so much better than making out with some random person. I've known Steve for years, and I've always had a crush on him but I didnt think that he noticed me in that way. Well, not enough to make out with me behind my brothers back. Anyway, as we were dancing my brother popped out of nowhere behind us, practically tossed me across the club and started yelling at his friend. He hadnt spoken to me for two whole days after that, and now that we are speaking- he hasnt mentioned the whole thing even once. I think he just completely wants to forget about that image of his best friend and I. What concerns me is what I should do now. I really like Steve and would love to see him behind my brother's back. BUT, I'd feel really guilty. And also, I dont know if Steve is even interested in me, or if he just wanted a piece that night. My friends were telling me that he wasnt taking his eyes off of me in that club, and that he was constantly looking around for my brother. I'm not sure though if he could really be into me though...he told me himself that night that the reason my brother was so pissed off was because he knows that he (Steve) has a bad reputation with women (he likes to screw around) and he doesnt want that happening to his little sister. If anyone has any imput to offer, it would be greatly appreciated. So sorry for the long read. Well. Whatever you do, if you two do end up together- tell the brother right away. It isn't right to sneak around behind his back. My friend started dating my other friend's sister- they both decided not to tell him. Everyone knew, but didn't say anything to the brother. Nearly nine months later- he found out and FLIPPED RIGHT THE HELL OUT. Know what he said? He said he would rather have known sooner, and the sooner he would have gotten the time to get over it- and get used to the idea. Rather than find out however months down the road, feel betrayed not only by his friend, but also his sister, on top of finding out they're dating? I hope you understand where I'm coming from, I hope this paragraph makes any sense, I'm pretty tired, lol. Now, if you are unsure whether steve is serious or not, look to your brother's feelings. Chances are, your brother knows steve better than you do, and probably knows what he's talking about, regarding steve being a "player". Take his advice, and just don't date him. Good luck. Link to post Share on other sites
Guest Posted August 4, 2006 Share Posted August 4, 2006 I Think You Should Ask Your Brother Why He Doesn't Approve Of You Going Out With His Best Friend.... He Is His Friend And You Have Known Him For Ten Years... So It's Not Like You Don't Know Him.... But Then Again Maybe Their Is Some Stuff He Does That Only Your Brother Knows About If He Gets Mad.. And Yells At You Maybe Ask One Of His Other Friends What They Think Of Him... I Would Still Watch Myself A Little With Him... That He Doesn't Hurt You... I Think You Are Very Smart And I Wish You Luck.... Link to post Share on other sites
SCDUDE Posted August 7, 2006 Share Posted August 7, 2006 +1 on all of that that i would say is the way to go, he will get less mad if heard from u and not sum1 else Link to post Share on other sites
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