Just recently got involve in a long distance relationship.

[PRETTYBOI1982]

For the very first time in my life. I just recently got involved in a long distance relationship. First, let me start off from how it's all going right now. Her name is Talyn Le originally from Tallahasee, Florida but now residing in Tampa, Florida. I live in New Orleans, Louisiana where Katrina have strucked in August 9, 2005.

 

The problem with me and her right now is distance between us and she is expected to become a Pharmacist by next year after her completion of clinical rotation by November and graduating from the Pharmacy program to recieve her Pharmacy degree by May or June of next year. My only problem is that I just can't seem to trust her in the area where she grew up at.

 

So then one day I've decided to talk to her about it and finally after so many arguments and fighting over the phone. She had finally agreed to move out with me some place else beyond Florida. There was so many misunderstanding before and after. Until I threaten to end this relationship that we're trying to build up together. She finally understood and agree upon.

 

Her past experience before was what's really bothering me and just thinking about it kinds of "you know"? Everytime her past relationship issue broughts up then a whole lot of drama breaks out. The argument never ends and it just continue on and on. I'll admit that we're starting out very bad and by the middle of this month I will be heading over to Tallahasee to meet up with her there and spend time with her for a week. She will have 10 days off from her rotation break starting on August 18th.

 

So, is it me or is it her? Her past relationship experience and so on. Why am I being so bother by it and what is the causes? I never did allow myself to even get near any female which falls into the category of being sluts, whore, tramps or whatever you may want to call it. I really dont know if she is one but the fact is she claims not to be one.

 

I can understand that mistake is a mistake but giving in and having sex just to try to make a relationship works out and having one night stands really means something. I've thought about ending this relationship so many times but my heart would not allow me to do such a thing unless she have done something wrong to me. So far, she hasn't yet but I'm a little bit convince that she won't think about doing it.

 

Any advice or comments is very appreciated.

 

*sigh* sad and confused

[Outcast]

It's you. You're too jealous, untrusting, and insecure. For most folks, when a relationship ends, it's over. It is exceedingly tiresome to have some new person in your life obsess about people in your past, particularly when you yourself have let them all fall into the past.

 

I don't think this will be a healthy or pleasant relationship at all unless you do something about getting your own feelings into better order.

[PRETTYBOI1982]

Yeah, I kind of understand what you're saying but it's already becoming an unhealthy relationship right now. As I'm typing this out we're talking on aim right now and still arguing about it over and over. *sigh* I am starting to get very tired of this and don't know how much more this can go on.

 

All of this was told at the very last minute when we was getting involve with eachother. I'd mean if it was told earlier from the begininng then maybe we could have been friends. Instead, it turn into a relationship right now. *so sad and confuse*