Milanista Posted August 3, 2006 Share Posted August 3, 2006 Hey all, I recently sent an email to this girl i really liked (shes in a different country on vacation), telling her that I liked her. Her replies have been very confusing and I cant tell if she likes me back... and I dont really want to just ask her what she feels about me as it would be awkward. This is what she replied in several emails: ..i didn't expect it... maybe it's me who owes you an apology for not understading... since i've started to know you you've become a really really good friend to me (and it's kind of unfair that school is over just when i started thinking it coudn't be that bad..), In the successive emails she started talking about good memories about us after I said why i liked her: nice and "cool" interpretation somehow i respect because you have your opinions clear and on the other side i'm a bit embarassed reading stuff about myself...hehe. it's true, we both have the same ideal life and it's kind of incredible we have so many things in common...there's no one else i know with the same opinions... Can someone help me??? Im so confused! Link to post Share on other sites
Hitman10000 Posted August 8, 2006 Share Posted August 8, 2006 LOL! I love how the women of this loveshack site hypocritically ignore to answer your question. Because they've written emails like this to guys they weren't interested in. That's pretty much it dude, now you can IGNORE HER AND MOVE ON! Link to post Share on other sites
Yamaha Posted August 8, 2006 Share Posted August 8, 2006 She's telling you she only sees you as a friend. If you want a romance with this girl it's not going to happen. If friendship isn't an option then you need to stop talking to her and look elsewhere. Link to post Share on other sites
Adunaphel Posted August 8, 2006 Share Posted August 8, 2006 To me she sounds like a girl who considered you just a friend until she got to know that you are interested in her, will probably not get romantically interested in you, but is actually thinking about it (whether she could get interested in you, or try to date you and see if things work). Link to post Share on other sites
SadandConfusedWA Posted August 8, 2006 Share Posted August 8, 2006 Sounds like the type of emails I wrote recently to the guy I wasn't interested in but tried not to hurt his feelings. If she did like you back, she would be crystal clear on this. When in doubt, the answer is no. Link to post Share on other sites
alphamale Posted August 8, 2006 Share Posted August 8, 2006 No, she doesn't like you, not romantically at least....sorry. Link to post Share on other sites
monkey00 Posted August 8, 2006 Share Posted August 8, 2006 Girls reuse that line all the time with guys they want to befriend. it's pretty consistent every time. The only problem i see is it can come off as a mixed message to the ones who hear it for the first time. Link to post Share on other sites
Adunaphel Posted August 8, 2006 Share Posted August 8, 2006 Some girls (myself included) would never use such a line if they are sure they are not interested. Link to post Share on other sites
alphamale Posted August 8, 2006 Share Posted August 8, 2006 Some girls (myself included) would never use such a line if they are sure they are not interested. are you a girl ADUNAPHEL? I always thought you were a boy Link to post Share on other sites
burning 4 revenge Posted August 8, 2006 Share Posted August 8, 2006 are you a girl ADUNAPHEL? I always thought you were a boy Alpha and all of his assumptions Link to post Share on other sites
Adunaphel Posted August 8, 2006 Share Posted August 8, 2006 are you a girl ADUNAPHEL? I always thought you were a boy LOL, touchè! Link to post Share on other sites
Rikka Posted August 8, 2006 Share Posted August 8, 2006 Girls reuse that line all the time with guys they want to befriend. it's pretty consistent every time. The only problem i see is it can come off as a mixed message to the ones who hear it for the first time. agreed. I think we do it because we think it will spare your feelings... but in reality, it just hurts more. I am pretty sure she isn't interested in anything more than friendship. Link to post Share on other sites
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