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Hey all,

 

I recently sent an email to this girl i really liked (shes in a different country on vacation), telling her that I liked her. Her replies have been very confusing and I cant tell if she likes me back... and I dont really want to just ask her what she feels about me as it would be awkward.

 

This is what she replied in several emails:

 

..i didn't expect it... maybe it's me who owes you an apology for not

understading...

since i've started to know you you've become a really really good

friend to me (and it's kind of unfair that school is over just when i

started thinking it coudn't be that bad..),

 

In the successive emails she started talking about good memories about us after I said why i liked her:

 

nice and "cool" interpretation :) somehow i respect because you have

your opinions clear and on the other side i'm a bit embarassed reading

stuff about myself...hehe.

it's true, we both have the same ideal life and it's kind of

incredible we have so many things in common...there's no one else i

know with the same opinions...

 

Can someone help me??? Im so confused!

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Hitman10000

LOL! I love how the women of this loveshack site hypocritically ignore to answer your question. Because they've written emails like this to guys they weren't interested in.

 

That's pretty much it dude, now you can IGNORE HER AND MOVE ON!

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She's telling you she only sees you as a friend. If you want a romance with this girl it's not going to happen. If friendship isn't an option then you need to stop talking to her and look elsewhere.

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To me she sounds like a girl who considered you just a friend until she got to know that you are interested in her, will probably not get romantically interested in you, but is actually thinking about it (whether she could get interested in you, or try to date you and see if things work).

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SadandConfusedWA

Sounds like the type of emails I wrote recently to the guy I wasn't interested in but tried not to hurt his feelings. If she did like you back, she would be crystal clear on this. When in doubt, the answer is no.

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Girls reuse that line all the time with guys they want to befriend. it's pretty consistent every time.

 

The only problem i see is it can come off as a mixed message to the ones who hear it for the first time.

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Some girls (myself included) would never use such a line if they are sure they are not interested.

are you a girl ADUNAPHEL? I always thought you were a boy :laugh:

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Girls reuse that line all the time with guys they want to befriend. it's pretty consistent every time.

 

The only problem i see is it can come off as a mixed message to the ones who hear it for the first time.

 

agreed. I think we do it because we think it will spare your feelings... but in reality, it just hurts more. I am pretty sure she isn't interested in anything more than friendship.

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