Rageaholic Posted August 3, 2006 Share Posted August 3, 2006 So I am starting to have this crush with this chick at a coffee shop.... but I have this feeling that she is flirting with me and I kindov flirt back... but deep down inside I dont know if she is interested. She does act it bit more open compared to other clients but I am just way to shy to even ask for her name.... I go back to my cubicle at work litterly shaking my head for some reason.. The only time I really get to just have very very small conversation is when there are hardly any clients at the cashier. I still wonder to myself as to how to tackle this shyness and to present some vibes that I like her. She has smiled at me at times and I would like quickly turn around like im an idiot, Link to post Share on other sites
Shyguy86 Posted August 4, 2006 Share Posted August 4, 2006 The problem with the situation is that a lot of girls are generally flirty which can lead to mixed signals. Keep flirting with her, and if you can muscle up the courage maybe ask her if she'd like to get a drink after her shift one day. I know it'll be hard, really hard, but you'll feel better even if the answer is no. It's better than wondering and beating yourself up over not doing it. Stay cool and confident and just remember that she's a person just like you or me. She's not going to bite your head off, the worst thing that can happen is she says no. I know this wont help much, but you just have to do it and get it over with. Also if she says no, than drop it and get over it. Don't ask her again the next day! Link to post Share on other sites
P1xie Posted August 4, 2006 Share Posted August 4, 2006 So I am starting to have this crush with this chick at a coffee shop.... but I have this feeling that she is flirting with me and I kindov flirt back... but deep down inside I dont know if she is interested. She does act it bit more open compared to other clients but I am just way to shy to even ask for her name.... I don't want to rain on your parade her but I got to tell you from experience. When you work in customer service, front desk, food service, retail etc. Part of your job is to smile and be friendly. If a customer is flirtatious with you usually you are flirtatious back. I have been asked out because these poor guys think I like them because I smile at them, I talk real nice to them, I am extra friendly. The point is that it is my job to be that way. I am suppose to be the happy, all smiles, friendly girl. It does not mean that I like you or want to go out with you. It means I'm doing my job. Don't get me wrong she may like you. The only way you are going to find out is to ask her out. No offense but guys can be real dense in situations like this. Think of the hot waitress and your friend is going yeah man she really likes me. WHATEVER!!! What are we suppose to do frown, not give you the time of day??? Link to post Share on other sites
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