Guest Posted August 6, 2006 Share Posted August 6, 2006 Hi, I have a question for the guys, as far as physical features go, how much of a difference would small breasts make? i mean does breast size really matter all that much? i'm asking because i've always been very thin (even though i'm a good eater!) and as you might have guessed not very "chesty". I've always been self conscious of this, it's so superficial i know but it still bothers me. So what do you think, is it all that important as it's played out to be? Link to post Share on other sites
Tony T Posted August 6, 2006 Share Posted August 6, 2006 HA!!! You fooled me. In the six years I've been here there have been 8,493 posts with the same exactly subject line and everyone of them has been about dicks!!! Luckily, women don't have to stick their breasts into anything much...except a bra in which case size matters somewhat. A nipple will fit into most guy's mouths. If a girl has got other things that will attract a guy, the size of her tatas matters not a bit. If her tatas are all she's got, she better have some really nice ones because they do get boring after a while. Link to post Share on other sites
Adunaphel Posted August 6, 2006 Share Posted August 6, 2006 I'm not a guy, but I'm an A cup and I'm pretty sure that many men are not bothered by small breasts. Some guys actually prefer small breasts.(even if they are a minority) Trust me, guys who would not date you only because of your breasts size are not guys you'd like to date anyway. Link to post Share on other sites
Pink Amulet Posted August 6, 2006 Share Posted August 6, 2006 As I have said before, while my larger breasts are the object of many passing strangers attention my ex prefered small breasts and was much more attracted to A cups. Tits are tits. Most men are just grateful to see and touch them regardless of size! Link to post Share on other sites
Outcast Posted August 6, 2006 Share Posted August 6, 2006 There have been a lot of threads about breast size on LS. Hunt them up via a search and read them if you want to feel better. 'Smaller is better' seems to be a fairly common philosophy Link to post Share on other sites
superconductor Posted August 6, 2006 Share Posted August 6, 2006 For me personally, bigger breasts aren't necessarily better. Now, breasts that hang down like tube socks... that's a major turn off. I know that gravity is a sonofabitch, but jeez... Link to post Share on other sites
Tony T Posted August 6, 2006 Share Posted August 6, 2006 There have been a lot of threads about breast size on LS. Hunt them up via a search and read them if you want to feel better. 'Smaller is better' seems to be a fairly common philosophy Hey, you can always "BIGGIE SIZE" with plastic surgery. The joys of modern medicine. Pick a size, ladies! Link to post Share on other sites
ilmw Posted August 6, 2006 Share Posted August 6, 2006 I think it all depends on the guy you are with.. some like them big some like them small.. My W when we first met has small breasts which she was self conscious about.. plus stretch marks from her first son.. also painfully self conscious about... ( I always told her they were her war wounds and she should be proud of them... look at why they are there.. she gave birth) If all a guys cares about is your cup size... he is as shallow as a Tea cup:) If he can look into your eyes and not think about the rest of you... then you have a possible keeper... The eyes remain the same, as your beauty fades. ilmw Link to post Share on other sites
johan Posted August 6, 2006 Share Posted August 6, 2006 Men who were breast fed as babies prefer bigger breasts. Depends on the woman, of course, but I don't like bigger ones. At least not to the extent that they make a woman unathletic and awkward. And make her back hurt. I also think large-breasted women tend to be curvier women, which is not my style. And curvy to me equates to large later in life. Something from medium to small is good for me. Then she can run and hike with me, but still be feminine. Link to post Share on other sites
Outcast Posted August 6, 2006 Share Posted August 6, 2006 If he can look into your eyes and not think about the rest of you... then you have a possible keeper... The eyes remain the same, as your beauty fades. You sound like a keeper yourself Link to post Share on other sites
burning 4 revenge Posted August 6, 2006 Share Posted August 6, 2006 i personally never cared one way, or the other Link to post Share on other sites
Pink Amulet Posted August 6, 2006 Share Posted August 6, 2006 Edit: Nevermind Link to post Share on other sites
Shyguy86 Posted August 6, 2006 Share Posted August 6, 2006 Some guys like em, but personally I couldn't care! Link to post Share on other sites
ilmw Posted August 6, 2006 Share Posted August 6, 2006 Tell that to my wife... (poor little ol me) Link to post Share on other sites
blind_otter Posted August 6, 2006 Share Posted August 6, 2006 I've always thought it wasn't the size so much as the shape. Like, small breasts are fine but I've seen somethat hung there like empty socks, which is generally not all that great. But as always confidence is the key. Link to post Share on other sites
Outcast Posted August 6, 2006 Share Posted August 6, 2006 Tell that to my wife... (poor little ol me) Awww, poor little old you I do spend a lot of time trying to convice people of both genders to appreciate the good things in their partners more. I understand that people can be awful to each other, and clearly I know nothing about you from one line - you could be a Class A jerk, after all. But it was a very nice sentiment you expressed so one would hope you have more where that came from. And that a spouse would be sensible enough to realize it. But people have issues. Like these ladies who feel devalued because the milkbags on their chests might not be massive. Link to post Share on other sites
ilmw Posted August 6, 2006 Share Posted August 6, 2006 people have issues. Like these ladies who feel devalued because the milkbags on their chests might not be massive. ---------------------------------------------- True,.. People... in general worry about the outside more than they do their inside. Sure your looks can get someones interest.. but if you are ugly inside... or have no self confidence.. your looks are not gonna keep anyone around. It is good to be fit.. inshape for health reasons.. but do it for yourself.. not to.. hope it will get people attracted to you.. although it is a nice fringe benifit:p BTW...Outcast...I don't think I am a Class A Jerk;) I could no imagine having anything changed about my body... (nose job/ plastic sugury etc) I like the way I look.. I'm no Brad Pit.. but... I have my charm.. As for woman having breat implants... Shheeeesh... i can't personally stand them... makes a woman look fake... I like natural looking (as nature intended them) woman. If you need to change something about you... try changing your self image/ self worth before you go under the knife. My 2 cents ilmw Link to post Share on other sites
Guest Posted August 7, 2006 Share Posted August 7, 2006 Thanks all for your input! I would never have plastic surgery to change my looks, i guess i wouldn't want to ever take such drastic measures! I'll just have to accept what i was given. It's just gonna take awhile... I've actually been told (by a male friend) that i have the body of a 14 yr old boy, arrg (i'm 21)! I mean i wouldn't say that but i'm on the thin side (trying to gain some weight), and i've often gotten comments like that. But ouch! I dunno seriously, some people criticize someone who is skinny and expect them not to be offended, but then people are so careful not to criticize someone who is overweight. I find it to be almost the same thing. I mean I know i'm too thin, I know what I look like, but when someone says "bleeh! you're too skinny! what the hell is wrong with you" that can make one just as self-conscious. And usually when one is quite thin, they're also not chesty, which as i said before is also my problem. But, thanks again for your comments everyone, they made me feel a bit better! Link to post Share on other sites
BohemeRose Posted August 7, 2006 Share Posted August 7, 2006 I'll admit straight off, I didn't read the rest of the replies, so what I'm about to say could be a repeat, heh. Not being a man myself, I can't say for sure what they like typically, but I know my boyfriend isn't very picky about girls having larger breasts. I mean, mine are a good size (just barely a C cup...could probably wear B) and he once made a comment that he's glad they aren't any bigger! Something about "you don't need more than a handful." I've never been insecure about my breasts either, so I know he wasn't just trying to be nice. I also have a few male friends who prefer women who aren't chestly at all. It's a matter of personal preference. But really, any man worth your time will like you for who you are, not what's in your bra. Link to post Share on other sites
Pyro Posted August 7, 2006 Share Posted August 7, 2006 Hi, I have a question for the guys, as far as physical features go, how much of a difference would small breasts make? i mean does breast size really matter all that much? i'm asking because i've always been very thin (even though i'm a good eater!) and as you might have guessed not very "chesty". I've always been self conscious of this, it's so superficial i know but it still bothers me. So what do you think, is it all that important as it's played out to be? Honestly, breast size has never ever been a factor in what female I find interest in. It doesn't matter to me. Link to post Share on other sites
Citizen Erased Posted August 7, 2006 Share Posted August 7, 2006 My name is Coco and I have large breasts. I am also skinny. I am also short. I hate having boobs for one reason. I cannot have a conversation with a male which includes eye contact. I have however, learnt to love my breasts. They are always there, always a constant. They keep me warm. They are a good accessory for every outfit. They are also a pain in the ass. Bra shopping is hell (although fun for my boyfriend!) Honestly, men couldnt really give a hoot if you have them. Small, large, real, fake. As long as they have something to play with they are fine. People need to learn that they need to be happy with their body, not other people have to be happy with it. Accept what the grande Lord has given you. It is not about what size dress you wear, your bra size etc. It is all about confidence. If you sho people you are happy with yourself, stand proud etc then they will respect you. Link to post Share on other sites
SoCalCatman72 Posted August 7, 2006 Share Posted August 7, 2006 If he can look into your eyes and not think about the rest of you... then you have a possible keeper... The eyes remain the same, as your beauty fades. That's a awesome statement, I may have to borrow it sometime. Link to post Share on other sites
blind_otter Posted August 7, 2006 Share Posted August 7, 2006 Thanks all for your input! I would never have plastic surgery to change my looks, i guess i wouldn't want to ever take such drastic measures! I'll just have to accept what i was given. It's just gonna take awhile... I've actually been told (by a male friend) that i have the body of a 14 yr old boy, arrg (i'm 21)! I mean i wouldn't say that but i'm on the thin side (trying to gain some weight), and i've often gotten comments like that. I used to be super skinny when I was in college. Like, not healthy skinny. As I got older I put on weight, which was a good thing, and my boobs got bigger. Seriously I had an a-cup in college, now I have a full b-cup (i'm 26). I think there are posts on here from 2004 where I was mentioning my boobs were getting bigger. My breasts also grew when I was pregnant. Anyways, be patient. Some ladies (like me!) are late bloomers. Link to post Share on other sites
Outcast Posted August 7, 2006 Share Posted August 7, 2006 Me, too. I used to be AA. I'm B leaning to C now. And no, Alf, I'm not a massive blob. Time has just been kind Link to post Share on other sites
blind_otter Posted August 7, 2006 Share Posted August 7, 2006 Me, too. I used to be AA. I'm B leaning to C now. And no, Alf, I'm not a massive blob. Time has just been kind My BIL's sister has always been well endowed, if you know what I mean - DDs. She recently had a baby and now her breasts are - a G cup. I kid you not. The woman spends hundreds of dollars on custom bras and constantly has back problems and is contemplating a breast reduction. Now I understand why it's good to start small..... Link to post Share on other sites
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