bryana Posted August 8, 2006 Share Posted August 8, 2006 Today i have a diffrent problem. my boyfriend and i been togheter for almost four years like some of you know. When we were like in our second year i had a problem with one of his brothers girlfriends. until now we dont talk i cant say i dont hate her because i kind of do but i dont care about her life shes like what evers to me what ever she does or dont do it dosn't matter to me. well she's getting merried this saturday with my boyfriends brother and she said that she doesn't want me in the wedding. im so used to going out with my boyfriend on the weekends and like she said she doesn't want me there, i didn't even get invited. it hurts me because all his family did exactly as she said and even my boyfriend is planning to go without me just to keep her happy. what should i do im so confused i feel like im not important to the family and like im being humilated by my own boyfriend. what can i do? should i just not go, or talk to my boyfriend so she wont be happy for what she accomplished? Link to post Share on other sites
P1xie Posted August 8, 2006 Share Posted August 8, 2006 i cant say i dont hate her because i kind of do but i dont care about her life shes like what evers to me what ever she does or dont do it dosn't matter to me. Why would you want to go to her wedding if you hate her for one, for two would you want her at your wedding? It's his brother he should go to the wedding as should the rest of the family. How are you humiliated I'm sure it's now secret that you two don't like eachother. Did you really expect to be invited? Link to post Share on other sites
Guest Posted August 12, 2006 Share Posted August 12, 2006 Just let him go on his own. A wedding is a big deal for the bride and groom and whether you like it or not, they get to invite whoever they want to. The family are probably just not wanting to cause problems. I would say hold your head up, and be the bigger person. Just make sure when you get married you ask her and be really nice to her, that'll screw her head up! Link to post Share on other sites
witabix Posted August 12, 2006 Share Posted August 12, 2006 Don't be too hurt. He has to go to his brothers wedding. As has been said, be the bigger person. Link to post Share on other sites
superconductor Posted August 12, 2006 Share Posted August 12, 2006 Though it may come as a shock, Bryana, the centre of the universe does not reside with you. Whether you get along with the bf's family or not is completely irrelevant to the wedding. You're giving this way more thought than anyone else. You can do yourself a huge favour and relieve yourself of a lot of angst by just letting your bf go without any hassle whatsoever. Link to post Share on other sites
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