MissingHerBad Posted August 8, 2006 Share Posted August 8, 2006 Hey everyone, Hope you all have been well! Recap: My ex and I went out for 2 years and broke up almost 2 years ago. Last fall I went to visit her at school. Major feelings but she had a bf. Come Christmas I was offered a job in another city and decided to go. Just at that moment I got a card then an email from her. We spent Christmas together and fell in love deeper then before. Unfortunately she had her bf and this made things confusing for both of us. She ended up breaking up with him at the end of January. and kept sending me emails saying she was mine - she just needed time. She told me to wait?! So I waited and waited and nothing ever came of it. I saw her in July to see how she was doing. I played it strictly as friends so I didnt push her - Had a great time. After that she was kind of distant, wouldn't return calls and really had no contact. I asked myself why? She sent me an email the otherday basically saying that she keeps thinking about Christmas and that day we met for lunch. She said sometimes she know clearly what she wants but when she goes to call me she loses what she was going to say. She said shes going to continue walking. "Maybe our paths will cross again maybe not." Can anyone give me some insight. Is this really over. Im the only one whos ever really conencted to her and vice versa. Is she scared there will be hurt again? How should I play the email? Do I return one back (short or long) or do I just give no response? One last question... Is it wrong to ask to make love (or have sex) one more time? How hot would that be? I love this girl with all my heart and for those who have read - Ive stopped at nothing to be with he, chasing her for almost two years. Come through for me people ... you always do! Thanks so much! Link to post Share on other sites
Skeered Posted August 8, 2006 Share Posted August 8, 2006 I hope you haven't stopped your dating life and search for someone because of her. She sounds like she likes you but not love if it were love she would for sure call and not stop herself. Plain and simple she likes knowing you are on the sidelines waiting for her. I think it's time to cash in the chips on this one and move on...if in the future something happens great because fate has a way of working itself out but I think you are dedicating a lot more time to the thought of this "relationship" than she is... Time to move on...IMO Link to post Share on other sites
norajane Posted August 8, 2006 Share Posted August 8, 2006 Move on. She doesn't want to be with you, she wants to keep 'walking'. Don't waste any more of your time on her. If you feel it necessary to reply to her email, just say, "Ok, hope you find what you're looking for. Cheers." And don't ask for sex!! Even if she agreed (BIG if) YOU would just get sucked in deeper and deeper with your feelings, while she wouldn't. Link to post Share on other sites
ImmaBeAlright Posted August 14, 2006 Share Posted August 14, 2006 She said shes going to continue walking. "Maybe our paths will cross again maybe not." Enough said. She has a BF, she is gonna keep walking. Dude, sorry to have to say this but looks to me like she is using you as a convenience. I suggest let her keep walking and proceed to walk the other way. Link to post Share on other sites
Returning Posted August 15, 2006 Share Posted August 15, 2006 The horse is dead, dismount. Link to post Share on other sites
Green Posted August 15, 2006 Share Posted August 15, 2006 I say go ahead and ask for some more sex, but also move on and flirt with other girls Link to post Share on other sites
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