joedao2006 Posted August 8, 2006 Share Posted August 8, 2006 Hi I am new to this forum and want to say hi to everyone. I really need help with some legal advise. My wife have moved out twice. The first time she came back after she moved out after our big argument from a non-sense topic. A week later, she came back after I begged her for coming back. I tried not to argue with her or have any conflict with her and working hard on my job but just last week after I came back from my business trip. I realized that she have moved out with all of her stuff from my studio with my dog with only one letter to say goodbye forever with one reason that I stick too much with my family's friend. I have explained to her that anytime my friend need my help then I need to come to help him. We were long time friend for 25 years. He also saved my wife life by providing her a good insurance coverage to protect her 3 times of big surgery. My friend was also my boss so helping him is my not only sharing but appreciated what he has done for us. I don't know why she keep jealous on him. and this time she moved out totally during 4 days of my trip out of US. when I am back, I really shocked that my trusted wife can do this to me without listen to my explanation. I am not a drinker, a smoker, a gambler, a gigolo or fooling around guy. I am a family man and only stay home after work. I don't know what else can make her satisfy from me. Please advise me what to do next. Should I report to police for her moving out in order to protect myself form problem later on. All suggestion from everyone in this forum will be very appreciated. Thanks so much for helping a poor guy like me. Regards, joedao2006 Link to post Share on other sites
Sup Posted August 8, 2006 Share Posted August 8, 2006 Is it possible SHE'S messing around on you, and don't want you to know? Contact a Lawyer, ask about abandonment, did she take your stuff, or just hers? Seems awfully flimsy to leave over that. Link to post Share on other sites
moman Posted August 8, 2006 Share Posted August 8, 2006 Joe, sorry to hear about your issues. Secure your assets IMMEDIATELY. (bank accounts, car titles, etc). Contact a lawyer. Good luck. Link to post Share on other sites
Reckless Posted August 8, 2006 Share Posted August 8, 2006 First of all, I'm not sure what country you're in but in most countries there is no law against a wife moving out of the family home. Most people when they do take 'stuff' if you want to contest what she as a right to (and even if you don't) I wouldn't go to the police but I would get myself a good lawyer pronto (if only to fight for custody of the dog). As for why your wife was unhappy, I would bet more than a months wage there's more to this story than her not liking your boss/friend. People don't leave because they're happy or even if they don't feel unhappy, they leave because they are unhappy or if someone better is waiting in the wings. I hate to kick you when you're down but something you said stuck me Hi I tried not to argue with her or have any conflict with her This may not have been the best approach; conflict can be constructive and if handled right gets stuff that needs to be out, into the open where you can deal with it - as it is whether it was her resentment of your time at work or some other issue for which you are not at fault, not dealing meant you have to deal now AND you're in the dark as to what you're up against. Link to post Share on other sites
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